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User Topic: Interesting realization
poopylala
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Content  Posted: 1:34 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I realized I can't remember all the dates anymore. I questioned which year D-day happened until somehow, I remembered the date.

I couldn't remember the names of the OPs other than first names.

I am completely okay with this.

While I will never forget what has happened, I am really happy with where we are at. We've had a few ups and down but we have worked through them together.

I'm just happy with where I am in life


BGF (me)- 25
FWBF (him)- 24
Was in a LTR but it's complicated now

forgiven and in R :)

"To err is human.
To forgive,
divine"


Posts: 965 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Houston, TX
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your post made me smile. I'm glad to hear your healing and R are going well.

Posts: 36760 | Registered: Mar 2011
unfound
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14876 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
Yakamishi
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Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Curiouse, when was your D day?


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 222 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
poopylala
♀ 30119
Member # 30119
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, I was wrong about the date! I thought it was Nov 7, 2011 but it was Nov 7, 2010!

Goes to show that I still didn't remember LOL oops


BGF (me)- 25
FWBF (him)- 24
Was in a LTR but it's complicated now

forgiven and in R :)

"To err is human.
To forgive,
divine"


Posts: 965 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Houston, TX
EmotionalFool
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG!!! Thats so great!!! Thanks for such a wonderful update..


WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12

Posts: 334 | Registered: Nov 2012
ccw82
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful that you are starting to forget the details! I hope to someday be in your shoes. :)


Me: 31
WH (1DumbHusband): 35
Married 5 years, together 7 years.
D-Day: June 17th, 2013
TTs that came out as late as January 2014

"One is not tempted by that he does not want."


Posts: 136 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Dallas, TX
Clarrissa
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the memory problems. Just goes to show that forgetting can sometimes be a *good* thing.


BH Cee64D - 48
WW (me) - 49


All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.


Posts: 5896 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: A better place
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, poopy, great to hear from you! Happy that things are going well for you. Very cool you can't remember the dates.

I still find myself saying "oh, poopylala" when I need to swear but don't want to. (around grandson) You are in my thoughts a lot.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10081 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Tinker01
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you!! I really needed to hear that today!!! CONGRATS..


Me 40
Him 5
Dday June 20/23 2013

Posts: 14 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Tinker01
poopylala
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Sister, you always make me smile! I'm sorry I haven't been on here in forever! I have been so busy with life which is both good and bad I suppose.

I know not everyone heals at the same rate but I really wish everyone had my "memory problem" because it really is freeing. (((Hugs))) to you all!


BGF (me)- 25
FWBF (him)- 24
Was in a LTR but it's complicated now

forgiven and in R :)

"To err is human.
To forgive,
divine"


Posts: 965 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Houston, TX
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I couldn't remember the names of the OPs other than first names.

I'm so happy for you. I remember the first time I forgot OM's last name. Brought a smile to my face.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5755 | Registered: Aug 2007
soconfusednow
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy for you. I hope to be there someday, but first I have to be convinced my WH is being faithful to me.

He says it's over with OW. I'm having doubts about that, but can't find any proof.


D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50
WH 52
NC-several
last broken NC 7/2013 (hopefully)
Married 29 years
2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 331 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
tsol25
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on the memory problems.  

congrats. Today would be my 3 year anti but I think I'm OK with that. I noticed a few days ago it was coming up but I think it was this post that connected it today. I haven't been dwelling on things like I did last year. I'm happy that things have settled down for both of us


me - tsol, that's all for now

Posts: 1208 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Canada
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