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User Topic: moving home tomorrow!!!
Alyssamd24
♀ 39005
Member # 39005
Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to talk to my BH tonight and he asked me to move back home!! I am so excited and happy he has finally done it, and am grateful he is willing to let me back in so we can work on R.

I know it's going to be hard, especially at first but am optimistic that we can make it work!


But what if I fall?
Oh Darling, but what if you fly?

Posts: 1269 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
boontje
♀ 33247
Member # 33247
Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is awesome news. I know you have been waiting for a long time for this.


Me: BS
Dday: June 2011

Courage is not having the strength to go on; it is going on when you don't have the strength.

--Theodore Roosevelt


Posts: 1339 | Registered: Aug 2011
krazy8516
♀ 40076
Member # 40076
Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:42 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck to you both!


Posts: 12215 | Registered: Mar 2008
stupidgurl
♀ 36763
Member # 36763
Default  Posted: 11:18 PM, August 24th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is great news, I am rooting for you two!


me WW/BW-34
him BH/WH- 34

2002/3 (him) EA

PA(me)-Nov 2007

Tog. 16 yrs, Marr. 15 and counting!

Still R'd


Posts: 180 | Registered: Sep 2012
Mrs Panda
♀ 27303
Member # 27303
Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great !!!


Me-44 FWW Him-47Bh
M 16 years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Prior A from 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

Posts: 2034 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: NY state
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 5:34 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012
SurprisinglyOkay
♀ 36684
Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 6:21 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!


FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1168 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"If you want to know who your tribe is, speak your truth, then see who sticks around. Those are the people who get a spot in your blanket fort." -Nanea Hoffman


Posts: 55089 | Registered: Sep 2007
EmotionalFool
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice!!


WW: 28 (ME)
BH: 28 (SI profile: CrappyLife)
D-Day- 15/10/12

Posts: 334 | Registered: Nov 2012
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 16015 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
20WrongsVs1
♀ 39000
Member # 39000
Happy  Posted: 10:28 AM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
Former motto: "Fake it till ya make it." Now: "You can't win if you don't play."

Posts: 1523 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: The First Coast
3xloser
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Good for both of you!! Now don't screw up.

Posts: 196 | Registered: Feb 2012
Alyssamd24
♀ 39005
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone.

Lol, I won't screw up this time!! I will show my BH he made the right choice by letting me move back in


But what if I fall?
Oh Darling, but what if you fly?

Posts: 1269 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
nuance
♂ 28793
Member # 28793
Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't leave once you're there.


Dday May 2000. R'ed.
People suck.

Posts: 1377 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: California
SandAway
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great!

Wishing you both the best ~


fWW
BH Tred
M 19yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 450 | Registered: Dec 2012
Darkness Falls
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, August 25th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, wishing the both of you the best. Great news.


WS, 5-month EA/PA '09-'10

Divorced from (2010) and remarried to (2014) XBH

1 1/2-year-old daughter and another baby girl on the way


Posts: 4306 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Central Florida
heforgotme
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Omgosh! I was so excited to see this!


D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1162 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL
TimeToManUp
♂ 37538
Member # 37538
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So how'd the move go?


I know we're worth it.
WH/BH (Me-36) EA 11/11-12/11
BW/WW (tattoodchinadoll-34) EA early 2016, PA 8/16-9/16, Continued to 12/16 after discovery.
Together nearly 20 years, married for 14.
Three daughters, 12, 8 and 5.

Posts: 230 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: New Jersey
TxsT
♀ 39996
Member # 39996
Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a wonderful step. I really feel you can"t R properly, or at all, without living together. Together makes it real again. I hope the move went well.

T


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!


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