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ProbableIceCream posted 8/24/2013 23:23 PM

I went to a party last night, stayed up way too late, and today I'm feeling cranky and extremely lonely. Sigh.

I probably just need more sleep. I had a great time and then it was kind of like a letdown afterwards.

Thelastknight posted 8/24/2013 23:31 PM

I feel ya!

SBB posted 8/25/2013 04:46 AM

It does feel like this the first few times you go out and leave it all behind for a night. You're thrilled because you realise you didn't think about all of this shit for a few hours but then you start thinking about all of this shit.

The more you do it the less let-downs you get. Kind of like holiday-itis.

traicionada posted 8/25/2013 14:10 PM

Gotta love the irony of it...I'm feeling shitty because just a handful of hours ago I wasn't

ProbableIceCream posted 8/31/2013 22:45 PM

It's so frustrating. When I do go out and do stuff, I feel good, and then I feel terribly lonely when I get back home.

When I don't, I don't feel lonely, I just feel kinda numb.

SBB posted 9/2/2013 06:28 AM

Feeling things, even bad feelings, is better than numb.

*Dr Phil-ism Alert*, You can't heal what you don't feel".

It gets better. You're making new habits - it feels weird at first.

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