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Long story sorry. Recap..June 4th this year "wh" got busted by the "ow" hubby. This was his 4th affair that was actually physical that I know about. I thought things were great. He had been good for a few years. Since that day there have been other mini ddays as he has been caught texting other women saying he loves them and can't wait to have sex and blah blah blah. He claims it doesn't mean anything its just a game because they live in other states or countries. Not buying it. He was also busted on 2 dating sites with recent pics of him. Yes I snooped in his email. I even contacted one of the women myself and told her about me :) fast forward to today. I do not trust him at all..AT ALL! So he leaves and I snoop. Ugh. He is still emailing the woman I contacted! Asking if they can still "be friends" and will she visit so they can hang out..as friends. She lives a state away. She responded that yes they can be only friends. Ugh! He is still hiding shyt from me! I know all the advice is to just leave him..but circumstances don't allow that. I have a special needs child I care for so I am a sahm. Financially I am stuck. I'm just feeling alone right now. I am brokenhearted and so depressed.

((((brokenhearted76))))

Wiser people than me will have good advice I'm sure. I would suggest the 180. I'm sorry :(

Why would you stay with him? What about him now (not the person he used to be, but the person he has become), would make you want to be with him?

He lies to you.
He's cheated on you in the past and is still continuing).
He hides things from you that he shouldn't.

Are you certain you are financially stuck? HAve you at least consulted with an attorney?

I agree with Mousse. Consult with an attorney. Your WH will have to support his child no matter what. Please look into resources for both you and your DD. You shouldn't feel stuck. That is no way to live.