Brevity, typos & misspellings provided by my ipad and fatigue.
Haha just kidding- he just lacks emotional intelligence.
If I didn't know better I would literally believe my husband was acting like a moron to trick me.
He's- very, very smart. As in valedictorian, almost perfect SAT.
Yet, it took me explaining how I felt to him- the same way I explain emotions to my four year old(that feels so condescending- but Im not trying to be)
My IC told me to- and I did.
My husband and I (myself? I can never keep that straight) had a 30 minute conversation in which I was completely honest, vulnerable and explained my feelings in very, very simple terms.
That 30 minutes- and the resulting clarity-saved our marriage.
Hopefully Ill have time to explain in more detail-certain books helped.
I'm here because * I just now * remembered it was near dday month. I can't believe I FORGOT about dday this time. The fact that it was four years ago- has nothing to do with it.
[This message edited by MoreThanMe at 11:37 PM, August 25th (Sunday)]
It's been 4 years, SA husband sober. We're doing okay. Today.
fWH had ONS with High School Principal he met on Ashley.com. 08/25/2009