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ciaobaby posted 8/26/2013 06:26 AM

Hi all-it's been a while since I've been here. Things have been pretty good around here and then last night happened. My house phone started ringing around 1030pm with a private/private call a few times that I just let go to voice mail. Then it rang a few times with skankys number coming up so answered after the 3rd time and she hung up.
About 5 minutes later -1130 by now I heard a car coming up our drive and ran upstairs to wake up my husband telling me hed better start talking immediatly. He was sound asleep but wanted me to just be quiet and stay away from the windows. Whoever it was pounded on the door a few times and then left. Im sure it was her. We live in the country and who pounds on someones door at that hour?
20 minutes later the house phone rings which I ignore and then my cellphone with blocked on it so i know it was her. I did answer only because he insisted he didn't know what was going on. She said she wanted to tell me things about herself and at that point I hung up. The only thing I said was hello when I answered the phone.
Neither one of us slept at all. He told me to have her arrested. I don't think I can since she didn't really do anything illegal but is that enough to get a restraining order ? This has scared me

AStar posted 8/26/2013 06:40 AM

It's enough. Get a restraining order and have it enforced. If she bothers you get her locked up.
People do crazy things- protect yourself.