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User Topic: Separation has kind of began
kg201
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Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After a horrid weekend my WW and I have begun a kind of separation. She spent a night at a hotel last night and I will be in one tonight.

I know I need to detach emotionally but I am struggling with it so much. I think there is an element of loss and grief that I am going through, but I need to be better. I want to emotionally detach from this M but just feel sad and angry inside.

Arghhhh.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 769 | Registered: Aug 2013
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You will detach kg. It takes time.

Please be careful switching nights in a hotel, that at some point she doesn't lock you out, saying you abandoned the home. I know it's hard, but you really should see a lawyer and get something written up so you don't get screwed out of your house, belongings, or whatever else.

In the mean time, do something nice for you. Something to help you stay calm. Exercise, walk, beat a punching bag. And please make sure you eat something. Drink water. It's important to look after you through this.

{{{hugs}}}


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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