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User Topic: Why am I so shell shocked?!?
♀ 37190
Member # 37190
Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Asked WH for a divorce Friday night, repeated Saturday. At that point I think he believed me. Now - all his lies are coming out. This is the main reason I want a divorce. My gut just knew he wasn't where he needed to be. My gut was right. Last Dday was end of march. He has held into lies since. He told me two yesterday. Stupid ones really!

In the grand scheme of things - does how many times he masterbates matter? Nope. I honesty never believed his answer of once or twice a year anyways. 2-4 times a month is what he says now. That sounds more "normal" for a guy.

In the grand scheme of things does him having phone sex through text with OW matter? Nope. I honestly never believed that lie either.

So why am I sitting here shell shocked?

Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016

Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an

Posts: 772 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Out of the ashes
♀ 38511
Member # 38511
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, August 26th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because a part of you wanted to believe his lies. Now you feel betrayed. If my WH lies ever come out I have a feeling that I will be posting a similar thread.

Good Luck.

Me, 47 BS
H, 65 WH
2 boys 23 and 18 years old
Married 24 years

Posts: 523 | Registered: Feb 2013
Topic Posts: 2

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