Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce 12-19-16
Asked WH for a divorce Friday night, repeated Saturday. At that point I think he believed me. Now - all his lies are coming out. This is the main reason I want a divorce. My gut just knew he wasn't where he needed to be. My gut was right. Last Dday was end of march. He has held into lies since. He told me two yesterday. Stupid ones really!
In the grand scheme of things - does how many times he masterbates matter? Nope. I honesty never believed his answer of once or twice a year anyways. 2-4 times a month is what he says now. That sounds more "normal" for a guy.
In the grand scheme of things does him having phone sex through text with OW matter? Nope. I honestly never believed that lie either.
So why am I sitting here shell shocked?
Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an