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Elaine2012 (original poster member #36099) posted at 4:38 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
I just got a call and "opposing's" L "somehow" is double booked. Something wasn't on her calendar and now they want to reschedule! 
Three options say no. Then they send a L that doesn't know anything and we have to do this all over again.
Reschedule ASAP.
Or reschedule for 45 days out and get mediation set up between now and then.
Me- 60 ish
WH-no longer relevant
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 3 SIL, 6 grandchildren
mof2 ( member #40287) posted at 5:28 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
Ugh!!!! That is so frustrating....I'm sorry! Hang in there, it will all be over soon.
BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 9:54 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
Grr...that's really frustrating.
It's happening here where Nearly ExH is trying to set all the schedules and as school approaches, it's not going to work anymore.
Trying to do it at night or weekend. I refuse to bring DD so said it has to be his weekend.
The one good thing I can offer is that sometimes the actual mediation part can be short-if you can make "such a deal" ahead of time and it is stuck with.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
Elaine2012 (original poster member #36099) posted at 2:21 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013
Hang in there, it will all be over soon.
I keep reading various forms of this statement. I'm trying to hang on. I guess I really don't have any other choice! I was feeling like we could try to make some progress today and then having the rug pulled out from under me caused me to wonder if there is something I can do anything differently!
I remember when the judge set the date he said something about it making it happen to be there in court since it was calendared so far out. It really seems like his L is really flaunting the courts by something as simple as a calendaring item. That was set back in May!
I know two other people whose WS used "opposing's" L. They didn't think much of her. One told me that she was always pushing dead lines even with the court. I think that is what really happened. They weren't prepared to meet today's date and used this excuse to maneuver around being there. 
Me- 60 ish
WH-no longer relevant
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 3 SIL, 6 grandchildren
Elaine2012 (original poster member #36099) posted at 2:27 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013
Ashland13 making a deal would require them participating in the process. So far the only thing that got action was when I filed with the court. We got a date for ICMC. Met at that court on that date and discussed the settlement on that day only then nothing until they cancelled today.
Really he wanted this what is so hard about getting it done. Oh yeah he's PA NPD I suppose that is playing a big part in this.
Me- 60 ish
WH-no longer relevant
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 3 SIL, 6 grandchildren
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