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Mentally Prepared and Then...I Should Have Expected This

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Elaine2012 posted 8/26/2013 10:38 AM

I just got a call and "opposing's" L "somehow" is double booked. Something wasn't on her calendar and now they want to reschedule!

Three options say no. Then they send a L that doesn't know anything and we have to do this all over again.

Reschedule ASAP.

Or reschedule for 45 days out and get mediation set up between now and then.

mof2 posted 8/26/2013 11:28 AM

Ugh!!!! That is so frustrating....I'm sorry! Hang in there, it will all be over soon.

Ashland13 posted 8/26/2013 15:54 PM

Grr...that's really frustrating.

It's happening here where Nearly ExH is trying to set all the schedules and as school approaches, it's not going to work anymore.

Trying to do it at night or weekend. I refuse to bring DD so said it has to be his weekend.

The one good thing I can offer is that sometimes the actual mediation part can be short-if you can make "such a deal" ahead of time and it is stuck with.

Elaine2012 posted 8/26/2013 20:21 PM

Hang in there, it will all be over soon.
I keep reading various forms of this statement. I'm trying to hang on. I guess I really don't have any other choice! I was feeling like we could try to make some progress today and then having the rug pulled out from under me caused me to wonder if there is something I can do anything differently!

I remember when the judge set the date he said something about it making it happen to be there in court since it was calendared so far out. It really seems like his L is really flaunting the courts by something as simple as a calendaring item. That was set back in May!

I know two other people whose WS used "opposing's" L. They didn't think much of her. One told me that she was always pushing dead lines even with the court. I think that is what really happened. They weren't prepared to meet today's date and used this excuse to maneuver around being there.

Elaine2012 posted 8/26/2013 20:27 PM

Ashland13 making a deal would require them participating in the process. So far the only thing that got action was when I filed with the court. We got a date for ICMC. Met at that court on that date and discussed the settlement on that day only then nothing until they cancelled today.

Really he wanted this what is so hard about getting it done. Oh yeah he's PA NPD I suppose that is playing a big part in this.

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