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ohiocarrie535 (original poster member #39709) posted at 7:33 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
We had a great time! We were both very relaxed, low key. Stuck to no talk of A. Although he alluded to it at one point. We ate, drank and basically just drove around, saw the sites and fished. I'm so glad I got to see my IC before I left. His advice to not over talk the A was right on. I feel like if we are talking about it, we aren't work on it. And I want to work things out ASAP. So I do beat the issue to death. Now I know it's ok to sit back and just be. Much less stress, and anger. 
krazy8516 ( member #40076) posted at 8:51 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day
married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m
"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 8:51 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
That's great! So happy it went well. Thanks for the update.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:18 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
I really like that you're aiming at thriving. I'm glad the celebration went well.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 11:24 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 2:12 AM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
Thriving is good! I'm glad that you were able to relax.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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