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Topic: Survived and thrived over anniversary weekend

ohiocarrie535
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Posted: 1:33 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013

We had a great time! We were both very relaxed, low key. Stuck to no talk of A. Although he alluded to it at one point. We ate, drank and basically just drove around, saw the sites and fished. I'm so glad I got to see my IC before I left. His advice to not over talk the A was right on. I feel like if we are talking about it, we aren't work on it. And I want to work things out ASAP. So I do beat the issue to death. Now I know it's ok to sit back and just be. Much less stress, and anger.

Posts: 84 | Registered: Jun 2013

krazy8516
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Posted: 2:51 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013

me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."

Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas

LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369

Posted: 2:51 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013

That's great! So happy it went well. Thanks for the update.

Posts: 10695 | Registered: Dec 2010

sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240

Posted: 5:18 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013

I really like that you're aiming at thriving. I'm glad the celebration went well.

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 11141 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area

catlover50
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Posted: 5:24 PM, August 26th (Monday), 2013

Good for you both!

Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1876 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast

Skan
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Member # 35812

Posted: 8:12 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013

Thriving is good! I'm glad that you were able to relax.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 5561 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California

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