We had a great time! We were both very relaxed, low key. Stuck to no talk of A. Although he alluded to it at one point. We ate, drank and basically just drove around, saw the sites and fished. I'm so glad I got to see my IC before I left. His advice to not over talk the A was right on. I feel like if we are talking about it, we aren't work on it. And I want to work things out ASAP. So I do beat the issue to death. Now I know it's ok to sit back and just be. Much less stress, and anger.