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On Friday, WH (who is conveniently out of town for work, he doesn't have to see me or face me) told me that he isn't sure he loves me anymore and he doesn't see us having a future together. I am devastated. I didn't think my heart could break anymore, but it has. I feel completely shattered.

(((freelancer)))

Do yourself a huge favor and dry your tears and get to a lawyer. You need to find out what you can expect and what you're entitled to. Its always better to control a situation than let it control you.

Good luck to you.

But I don't want a divorce. I completely see that now. But how long can I keep fighting for my marriage and my family against someone that doesn't care?

Remember that often times we don't get what we want. None of us wanted to be cheated on in the first place.

You have children that you need to think of first and foremost. Go to a lawyer and find out where you stand. Sometimes when you say, "fine, I'll file then" the WS gets their head out of their ass. If he doesn't then he isn't worth your time anyway.

I'm so sorry, freelancer. Please, consult with an attorney. You cannot will and wish your WH into being the person you want him to be, the person you deserve. Divorce proceedings can always be stopped, but you have to protect yourself and your kids.