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freelancer (original poster member #36529) posted at 9:06 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
On Friday, WH (who is conveniently out of town for work, he doesn't have to see me or face me) told me that he isn't sure he loves me anymore and he doesn't see us having a future together. I am devastated. I didn't think my heart could break anymore, but it has. I feel completely shattered. 
Me: BS, 38
Him: WH, 38
3 beautiful babies, 9, 6 and 3
DD1: 7/1/2012
OW#1: EA/PA for 14 months
OW#2: PA for 1.5 months
DD2: 9/17/2013 Back at it with OW#1 for 4 weeks.
NeverAgain2013 ( member #38121) posted at 9:10 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
(((freelancer)))
Do yourself a huge favor and dry your tears and get to a lawyer. You need to find out what you can expect and what you're entitled to. Its always better to control a situation than let it control you.
Good luck to you.
Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.
freelancer (original poster member #36529) posted at 9:13 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
But I don't want a divorce. I completely see that now. But how long can I keep fighting for my marriage and my family against someone that doesn't care?
Me: BS, 38
Him: WH, 38
3 beautiful babies, 9, 6 and 3
DD1: 7/1/2012
OW#1: EA/PA for 14 months
OW#2: PA for 1.5 months
DD2: 9/17/2013 Back at it with OW#1 for 4 weeks.
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 11:05 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
Remember that often times we don't get what we want. None of us wanted to be cheated on in the first place.
You have children that you need to think of first and foremost. Go to a lawyer and find out where you stand. Sometimes when you say, "fine, I'll file then" the WS gets their head out of their ass. If he doesn't then he isn't worth your time anyway.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
Fireflies ( member #40210) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, August 26th, 2013
I'm so sorry, freelancer. Please, consult with an attorney. You cannot will and wish your WH into being the person you want him to be, the person you deserve. Divorce proceedings can always be stopped, but you have to protect yourself and your kids.
Me: BS
Him: WS
Go your way,
I'll take the long way 'round,
I'll find my own way down,
As I should.
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