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huRtZ413 posted 8/26/2013 17:10 PM

so this will be the 1st night with out WH he is going to live at the barracks till i can fly home. I am going to filr for separation ....whatever that means next monday . it was hard he cried and kissed our girls bye and hugged my and in tears he said he understood that its the way it has to be that he hope one day he can get me back that he will be waiting . SOOOO hard i love him but i need to be strong!!!!

he lied about the A !

he came and confessed of a one night stand with a stranger and made me believe it was some blonde college girl for 4 months i was healing on a lie come to find out she was no stranger she was a co-worker and the texted flirty crap one month before the one night stand , dont think he intended on it being a one time thing cause he liked her but quickly realized he didnt want her the way he thought......but its too late too many lies i dont know what is true the real story though now he swears it is . instead of the ONS A it was also EA , i cant handle that i couldnt handle the ONS but to know she wasnt the stranger he put in my head , she wasnt some white girl she was hispanic and had black hair complete ooposite of what he made her out to be to cover who she really was . after he got introuble at work for the A with the "supposed stranger" she texted him i want to kiss you you protected me !!! which he didnt reply but still ahhhh i didnt know the bitch was down the block from him the past 4 months . said girl was suppose to be in another state.

nowiknow23 posted 8/26/2013 18:59 PM

Big hugs, hurtz. Take care of yourself tonight. A little pampering is definitely in order.

Skan posted 8/26/2013 19:02 PM

Hey, go get yourself a glass of wine and I'll join you. (((hugs)))

gma56 posted 8/26/2013 21:56 PM

(((huRtZ413)))

Even when you know it's the right thing to do for yourself, it hurts !
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Big Hugs
Gma

nowiknow23 posted 8/27/2013 08:25 AM

How are you doing today, hurtz?

huRtZ413 posted 8/27/2013 10:15 AM

today is day two and im just here wondering when ill leave and trying hard not to cave cause i think his eyes just opened wide in the mist of losing everything . not a side i saw on d-day but i need something and i dont know what ...some ppl already know and now i feel like i cant change my mind now and well he wished he was single ....why not give it to him (he claims it was his stupidity and not seeing what i do for him) he doesnt want to lose my love because i love whole heartedly i would and have gone above and beyond . i cater , im affectionate , im open minded, i listen , i communicate, i understand (of course everyone has a limit with nonsense) im supportive he didnt know all i did for him but hes finding out now that he cant talk to anyone about his worried and fears , and ow turned out to be a nasty snake that denys everything that happened ( she is fighting to keep her job, that i am ruining right now)

god i love this man and im in such pain

huRtZ413 posted 8/27/2013 10:23 AM

i cant hate him i love him , i hate what he has done to me but i know he loves me hes is just so messed up , i dont want this