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That liars get caught.
OW1 is a liar. She has been a liar for as long as I've known her (about 20 years) and was most likely a liar before we met.
She sent my H a fb message the other night (which made him realize she wasn't blocked and he fixed that).
Her message said -

I didnt how's else to warn you be careful of new hired on's ok there not exactly who they say they are make sure you check the truck you driving ok.

I immediately felt like this could be some kind of threat (since she has a large family who are known for 'protecting' each other) and asked him to clarify what she meant (I know, my bad, but his job is dangerous enough without someone sabotaging his equipment.)
She went on to say that she had dispatched undercover marshals to his work because they had a source saying they were hauling more than oilfield equipment. She continued by telling him that she was telling him this because she thought of him as a friend and that if anyone knew it could ruin her career.
Seriously? We live in a small town. We all went to school together. She didn't graduate high school. She doesn't work for the marshals or any other law enforcement agency. She's a waitress. At a diner. Next to the movie theatre. They have great ice cream, but definitely aren't dispatching any undercover agents to investigate a trucking company. Some people.

Gosh! As a truckers wife, that would make me incredibly paranoid! It is probably some stupid BS to reach out to him, but geez! I hope he does all of his inspections and is cautious!

I'm glad you understood her message...I'm still trying to figure out wtf she's saying.

Sorry. I wrote mostly what her words were. Some context and clarification would probably help. My H works for a company that moves drilling rigs for the oil field. He drives a semi truck and hauls a forklift so that he can load all the other trailers with the pieces of the rig they are moving. Basically, she was saying that the law enforcement group she is working for sent undercover officers to his business and they were hired as new hands (drivers and/or helpers). Their purpose in being there was to investigate a claim that his company is moving 'something else' (most likely drugs) - which they aren't. Before he talked to her to clarify that, her message seemed to me like one of her family had been hired and was intent on sabotaging my H's truck causing damage, injury or loss of life. Turns out, it was all just BS from the mouth of a liar. Seriously, what kind of agents is a diner waitress going to dispatch?
(No offense intended to waitresses at all. I've done it and it isn't easy work).

Wtf? So odd.

Purple, she makes up the most outrageous lies. Always has. Her last living child was due in February and she was going to have to have him in a different state because her risk of dying was so high. The kid was born in MAY naturally at the local hospital with no complications for her - in fact, she slept with my H exactly 6 weeks after that delivery. 6 weeks after she slept with my H, she was pregnant with his twins - a boy and a girl (because you can tell gender at 6 weeks). She miscarried them both a week later. She lived in New York and modeled at some point (but strangely NEVER left town). Idk why this one surprises me. Maybe I thought she'd learned something.