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A year of blah

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 MystiKay (original poster member #36401) posted at 4:50 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013

Has it really been a year sense I found out for the second time my husband was "planning" on cheating with me, because i was frigid.

Things are alright. I don't trigger much, I still check his email and things pretty regularly.

To be honest I don't really feel much. I am kind of stuck in the plain of lethal flatness. I get annoyed with him him and he has been snappish at me lately, which of course leads me to check his email more.

He still watches porn, still amateur but at least not at the sites where he can chat wtih the girls and tell them what turns him on.

He is affectionate, but I am not feeling it yet. I have concern for him, but I don't know. it is all blah. So yeah not good not bad...just meh.

And no i don't really know what i want to do to change it.

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devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 10:12 AM on Tuesday, August 27th, 2013

Hi

It sounds to me like you are in a depression. Have you seen your Doctor? Are you on medication? I'm not pushing drugs here, but sometimes, it is necessary. If you can, go see your Doctor and tell him what is going on with you. You just might need a little kick start here. Good Luck.

And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

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