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User Topic: Where I'm at now
♀ 28555
Member # 28555
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First, I love my IC. She gets it, she gets me, she's awesome.

She likes me to update her between visits. I sent her this email last night:

"Hi there! Just thought I'd update you.

Put in an offer to purchase the house. XX Bank is processing my application. Lawyers are working on the divorce decree, finally.

DS15 and I are hanging in here. WH makes everything depressing. He's drinking more and talking less to DS15. Last night, he got totally wasted drunk. Great dad! DS15 noticed. So sad.

Took mom to have a hidascan on Friday. That was a very long day. Waiting on results of that to see if she needs to have her gall bladder removed or what.

I've grown very fond of Cymbalta. Good friends we've become.

School started today and my baby is a Sophomore.

Considering our situation, DS15 and I, as a family, are doing real good.

I can see some light at the end of the tunnel."

Her response:

"A tunnel of numbness, sadness, alcohol and silence illuminated at the other end by busy bankers, lawyers, a Sophomore, gall bladder specialists and Cymbalta.

Good job woman."

I'm making progress. I'm proud of myself. I started this D journey scared, now I'm empowered, I have control now. I'm happy too. I also got "hit on" by two separate guys at the grocery store.

Note to WH: "Can you see me now?"

"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Good job woman."

I think I love her.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6004 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She is awesome. So are you!

Congratulations on seeing that light.

Me: 1970
Two sons: 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3583 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
♀ 24961
Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can see you now. You are doing Awesome.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5919 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
♀ 22870
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're on the way. Awesome job, and great counselor.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9154 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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