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click4it posted 8/27/2013 16:29 PM

I asked ex-h yesterday if he's going to take our boys to his niece's son's birthday party on Saturday. If not, I was invited and I plan to go.

He proceeds to tell me that he can't go because he's dealing with a crisis right now.

(course I ask, what crisis? ugh.)

He says his grandmother in-law needs a pacemaker put in and the family is hesitant on doing it. I told him my grandmother had one put in about 5 years ago and it saved her life and she was much better. He says "oh WOW, you never told me that".

UM, (fucker ) you never cared what was going on with my family after you left!!

But I did not say that. I said, yes well, she had it done and she's 99 now and really your in-law should have it done because I will bet she will be just fine afterward. He was like "oh thank you so much, I feel better knowing that now".

You're welcome ex-h.

newnormal posted 8/27/2013 18:50 PM

My XH (kids dad) never wanted anything to do with my family. He would make me "service" him before he would go to their house for xmas eve with the kids to see Santa. After the D -he moved next door to my parents.

Edited for spelling

[This message edited by newnormal at 6:51 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)]

click4it posted 8/27/2013 21:57 PM

oh new...that is just so wrong. especially the part about you having to "service" him before going to your family's house. Good lord, thank goodness he is OUT of your life. (((hugs)))

Dreamboat posted 8/28/2013 06:51 AM

I was completely NC with my X when my mother died, so he found out about it when he parents read the obit. He called me all upset that I had not told him. I am grieving my mother and he is somehow the victim. Then he told me that wifetress's father died, like I give a shit. I told him that I didn't care and that he and his family were not welcome at Mom's funeral. Then I hung up on his sorry ass.

These guys are so freaking selfish that they cannot see past their own nose.

hexed posted 8/28/2013 08:29 AM

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

yep...this made me laugh and shake my head

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