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User Topic: In A Good Place
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Member # 35812
Content  Posted: 5:11 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just realized last night, that FWH and I are in a good place right now. Were talking about our feelings every day. We started going to a marriage group that I think that were going to mesh with really well. Both of us have this calm, relaxed, united air about is that is noticeable. Were instinctively reaching out to each other at the same time. Its almost as if life has slowed down, taken a turn for the better, and instead of shooting uphill on the rollercoaster, were just cruising along in a very good place.

Im liking it a lot! Im liking the look in his eyes when I step through the door. Im liking the way that he reaches for my hand when were together. Im liking the wave of love I feel, when I see him. Im liking waking up in the middle of the night to find that hes holding me. Im liking moving into him, when hes asleep in bed, and having him automatically make a place for me to put my head on his chest.

My goodness! At our Advanced Age, I do believe that were falling in love again. Or re-discovering love again. Or something. But whatever it is, I like it!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 10189 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

in the same place as you Skan. isnt it a nice place for a change?

Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
♀ 40012
Member # 40012
Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to hear the good report. It gives us newbies hope:)

BS 53
WH 44
M 14 years at time of DD
2 young daughters
DD 12-8-12
A-3 YEARS and her husband was an accomplice.
In R, IC, & MC Since 1 week after DD. On the mend with the help of God, Friends and Family.

Posts: 93 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Central FL
♂ 30369
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an awesome update of hope. Good for you, and thanks for sharing the goodness with the rest of us!

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