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libertyrocks posted 8/27/2013 17:48 PM

What's your opinion on my fWH??

For 3 years and 8OW that I know of, my recovering alcoholic H says he was a drunk and did bad things.

So, fastforward to my survival and comprehension of these matters, does it sound like he went out to play now wants to be a family man or he's seriously screwed up??

What do you all think??

No offense to others, but I honestly feel it would be a little bit better if it were just one OW or person he loved. But, 8 OW, that I know of in 3 years???

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 5:52 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)]

whattheh posted 8/27/2013 18:25 PM

I've read true lasting reconciliation is less likely to be successful with a serial cheater?

But some have pulled it off...

[This message edited by whattheh at 6:27 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)]

Kierst13 posted 8/27/2013 18:39 PM

So he is blaming his affairs on drinking?

Ostrich80 posted 8/27/2013 19:37 PM

I see what your saying..if he fell for.one ow it is a diff sich than ons?? With 8.ow..were they ons? Or did he have a R with them?
I think substance abuse / alcohol is a
whole other ballgame. Not to excuse him at all but he uses poor judgement while drinking and maybe he wouldn't if he were sober. I may be the minority but I have a lot of addicts in my life and tend to have compassion for them. When he has been sober for a length of time, did he cheat then?

libertyrocks posted 8/27/2013 19:52 PM

He had relationships, he was literally dating women, hanging out with them, drinking, hotels, dates, etc. and blames it on alcohol.

libertyrocks posted 8/27/2013 19:52 PM

He had relationships, he was literally dating women, hanging out with them, drinking, hotels, dates, etc. and blames it on alcohol.

libertyrocks posted 8/27/2013 19:52 PM

He had relationships, he was literally dating women, hanging out with them, drinking, hotels, dates, etc. and blames it on alcohol.

libertyrocks posted 8/27/2013 19:52 PM

He had relationships, he was literally dating women, hanging out with them, drinking, hotels, dates, etc. and blames it on alcohol.

Ostrich80 posted 8/28/2013 01:36 AM

Ok well then my answer is out to.play. Screw up once..maybe but 8 R 's? I'd say it would be quite a gamble with him.

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