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User Topic: The group isn't kicking me out!
♂ 40173
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had my monthly cancer care-givers support group this evening. I told them my story about my wife's infidelity, and how her decision to stay with the OM has forced me to stop providing her the care that a husband would a sick spouse.

My group is not kicking me out despite my new status as a cancer non-care giver. It is a good group and I felt supported this evening.

Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Posts: 1151 | Registered: Aug 2013
♂ 14866
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's good to hear.


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's so night kg. They know you are a caring individual, they want to support you through this, while you help others with the cancer care. They sound like a wonderful group.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5861 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
- The Doctor

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