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User Topic: The group isn't kicking me out!
♂ 40173
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had my monthly cancer care-givers support group this evening. I told them my story about my wife's infidelity, and how her decision to stay with the OM has forced me to stop providing her the care that a husband would a sick spouse.

My group is not kicking me out despite my new status as a cancer non-care giver. It is a good group and I felt supported this evening.

Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Posts: 1155 | Registered: Aug 2013
♂ 14866
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's good to hear.


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

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Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's so night kg. They know you are a caring individual, they want to support you through this, while you help others with the cancer care. They sound like a wonderful group.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5905 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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