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Topic: OW#1 Broke NC

Mack9512
♀ 38619
Member # 38619

Posted: 8:52 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013

And I'm happy as hell about it!

Obviously I'm not glad that she contacted my fWH again after 7 months, but because my fWH did exactly what he is supposed to do.

She sent him an email begging him to be her best friend again. Begging him to call her, email her...just begging. He got the email while he was waiting for his IC session to start and the first thing out of his mouth when he got home was to tell me that she sent him an email, he wanted me to read it and then delete it.

Good job fWH!!!!

"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo

Posts: 425 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: East Coast

AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622

Posted: 9:01 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013

Awesome

Good job MR Mack!!!!

BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2731 | Registered: Aug 2012

jjsr
♀ 34353
Member # 34353

Posted: 9:07 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013

Good job

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1693 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.

SadFlower
♀ 37725
Member # 37725

Posted: 6:20 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013

Mack, that's great! Good for your FWH!

And I know exactly what you mean about being glad. OW e-mailed my FWH Monday, and he came up from his basement office immediately to tell me. That one act has done more to restore my trust than anything else.

Me: BW, age 66
Him: WH, age 65
Married 19 years
In R.

D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA

Posts: 431 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Connecticut

heforgotme
♀ 38391
Member # 38391

Posted: 8:47 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013

Yay for him!

And I must say that I didn't mind hearing about the begging. Guess that whole "do whatever you want no matter who you may hurt" thing didn't go so well for her, did it?

Poor thing.

D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

Posts: 1100 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: FL

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