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Averyhurtgirl (original poster new member #37762) posted at 5:34 AM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
This Labor Day weekend is going to be a hard one!!!
My what would have been 10 year wedding anniversary is on Saturday, then 31st birthday on Sunday, then my horrible ex in laws are moving back into town on Monday! On top of that, my BS is going out of town while I will be moving boxes out of our home.
What a horrible weekend to look forward too!
Its hard to see that our other friends who got married the summer that I did now have three kids, happily married, stable husbands, and going on great vacations for their 10 year anniversary.
It has also been hard because I have been feeling very lonely and now feeling ready for a relationship again.
click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:37 AM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
(((avery)))
Try to do something nice for yourself this weekend, even if its just for a few moments. All my friends pre-dday are also still married. I'm the only one. So, I know how that feels. I'm a lot further out than you are, but I remember how difficult it was to deal with anti-versaries, ex-inlaws, etc.
We are here if you need to talk.
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 6:31 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
Let me get this straight....your marriage is breaking up because you cheated? Or did I read this wrong?
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
Averyhurtgirl (original poster new member #37762) posted at 5:31 AM on Thursday, August 29th, 2013
No he cheated on me for 5 years but what is worse is that he blamed it all on me, saying I verbally abused him etc.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:39 PM on Thursday, August 29th, 2013
I think there is confusion because you said your BS is going out of town. Who is your BS if you're the Betrayed Spouse?
I hope you can find some time for fun this weekend. It's a lot happening at once.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 6:51 PM on Thursday, August 29th, 2013
Yes, that was my confusion, little turtle.
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
Averyhurtgirl (original poster new member #37762) posted at 2:57 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013
used the terminology wrong. I am the BS he cheated on me.
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