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10 yr anniversary, 31st bday, & in laws moving back

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Averyhurtgirl posted 8/27/2013 23:34 PM

This Labor Day weekend is going to be a hard one!!!

My what would have been 10 year wedding anniversary is on Saturday, then 31st birthday on Sunday, then my horrible ex in laws are moving back into town on Monday! On top of that, my BS is going out of town while I will be moving boxes out of our home.

What a horrible weekend to look forward too!

Its hard to see that our other friends who got married the summer that I did now have three kids, happily married, stable husbands, and going on great vacations for their 10 year anniversary.

It has also been hard because I have been feeling very lonely and now feeling ready for a relationship again.

click4it posted 8/27/2013 23:37 PM


Try to do something nice for yourself this weekend, even if its just for a few moments. All my friends pre-dday are also still married. I'm the only one. So, I know how that feels. I'm a lot further out than you are, but I remember how difficult it was to deal with anti-versaries, ex-inlaws, etc.

We are here if you need to talk.

lynnm1947 posted 8/28/2013 12:31 PM

Let me get this straight....your marriage is breaking up because you cheated? Or did I read this wrong?

Averyhurtgirl posted 8/28/2013 23:31 PM

No he cheated on me for 5 years but what is worse is that he blamed it all on me, saying I verbally abused him etc.

little turtle posted 8/29/2013 08:39 AM

I think there is confusion because you said your BS is going out of town. Who is your BS if you're the Betrayed Spouse?

I hope you can find some time for fun this weekend. It's a lot happening at once.

lynnm1947 posted 8/29/2013 12:51 PM

Yes, that was my confusion, little turtle.

Averyhurtgirl posted 8/30/2013 08:57 AM

used the terminology wrong. I am the BS he cheated on me.

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