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User Topic: Wow this is heartwarming
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Member # 32899
Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not sure if this is okay I hope it is and I hope the link works. I am sure it will be a tear jerker for many who are struggling but I also think it is beautiful and what all of us on this site deserve a love so special it never fails.

I apologize in advance if I did break any rules.

BS - Me
WS - I don't think he considers himself WS. Denial its not just a river in Egypt.
Married - Almost 18 Yrs
Together - 23 years
DDay# 1 3/6/2010
DDay# 2 3/26/2010
Reconciling I think god I hope

Posts: 109 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Metro Detroit Area
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me, BS 43
Him WH 43 - LTA, EA/PA
Together 25 years
DD14 - the love of my life

DDay#1 11/10/2012
DDay#4 4/5/2013 (NC broken AGAIN)
DDay#5 10/8/14 - caught him reading an "old" email from OW.

D seems like the only option.

Posts: 132 | Registered: Nov 2012
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for sharing, stillhurting. Yes, heartwarming and a tearjerker.

My Mom and Dad will be celebrating their 65th wedding anniversary this September. Guess what my sweet mama's name is?

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

Posts: 13298 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a wonderful tribute to their life long love they lived.

It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20489 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh dear. I'm sobbing. God bless Fred.

Fred was the name under which, my FWH had his AFF and other f-sites under. I've hated this name since then, and it's been really unfortunate. Fred is the name that I've always used for all of my machines, my cars, any piece of machinery that I use. Fred, freddy, fred-o, Ready Freddy? All of these are phrases that I've used over the years, playfully, happily, teasingly.

Until I found his alter ego Fred S. Trying to get laid. And every unconscious use of the name "Fred" brought pain.

I'm going to remember THIS Fred and his love, Lorraine, from now on, and not that other, false fred.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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