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whatnow8 (original poster member #36576) posted at 4:49 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
A couple weeks ago I found a number on wh's phone. I was tracking it, and some others that I found online for escorts. When I checked them all thru an info site they all came up with a map for an online adult store.
Last week I went thru phone records, and checked a couple numbers I didn't recognize. The last one on the list came up with the map to the same store. When I called it it ended up being my mother in law. It was her home phone, and we always call her cell, so I didn't recognize it.
So, I finally confronted my husband with the info I had. He handled it really well. He said it was frustrating, because he tries to show me that I can trust him, but he understands why I thought he was up to the same stuff.
wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18
It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 4:58 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
Well that's a step in the right direction!
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
soconfusednow ( member #40078) posted at 5:01 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
Isn't it wonderful when you catch them doing something right.
D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50's WH 50's
NC-several, last broken NC 7/2013 (?)
Married 30+ years, 2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?
whatnow8 (original poster member #36576) posted at 5:32 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013
It is wonderful. Every other time anything like this came up it ended in us both yelling and sometimes me packing. I was really to the point that I just can't take any more. We are on our 5th counselor, and now a 6th helping her out.
I feel like I can finally breathe a little. 
wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18
It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown
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