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User Topic: I'm just paranoid for a change
whatnow8
♀ 36576
Member # 36576
Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A couple weeks ago I found a number on wh's phone. I was tracking it, and some others that I found online for escorts. When I checked them all thru an info site they all came up with a map for an online adult store.

Last week I went thru phone records, and checked a couple numbers I didn't recognize. The last one on the list came up with the map to the same store. When I called it it ended up being my mother in law. It was her home phone, and we always call her cell, so I didn't recognize it.

So, I finally confronted my husband with the info I had. He handled it really well. He said it was frustrating, because he tries to show me that I can trust him, but he understands why I thought he was up to the same stuff.


wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18

It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown


Posts: 178 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: midwest
nekorb
♀ 40306
Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well that's a step in the right direction!


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
soconfusednow
♀ 40078
Member # 40078
Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't it wonderful when you catch them doing something right.


D-Day January 2013
prior EA in the 90's
me 50
WH 52
NC-several
last broken NC 7/2013 (hopefully)
Married 29 years
2 kids
Want to believe it's over, but is it really? Will I ever trust again?

Posts: 328 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
whatnow8
♀ 36576
Member # 36576
Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is wonderful. Every other time anything like this came up it ended in us both yelling and sometimes me packing. I was really to the point that I just can't take any more. We are on our 5th counselor, and now a 6th helping her out.
I feel like I can finally breathe a little.


wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18

It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown


Posts: 178 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: midwest
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