does this even exist?
Seemed every time WS appeared to re-commit to me during this separation, he romanticized the OW so much. (saying how haunted he was by her memory, etc)
And he would then romanticize me whenever he re-committed to her.
These phases would cycle quickly, back and forth and back and forth.
I told our MC about it last month when we were seeing her, and she disagrees it was a case of "the grass being greener" type thinking.
But I don't know what else one would call it.
Anyway, divorce on either way!
But this ridiculous dynamic always annoyed the heck out of me.