I might have missed an article but there is a thread in JFO that is about this topic.
Here is a link to that thread.
As maybe this is what you were searching for or where the article is
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.