Member # 37091
| Posted: 4:10 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013|
Sorry I went silent past couple days. I was trying to come to terms with the fact that its really over. One of my 2 BFF's has decided she wants me to live with her. That makes apartment hunting over and I'm more then happy to be her roommate. Getting my ducks in a row here. SO (can't quite put the ex in front yet) and I have been getting along amazingly and he's actually getting his shit together. Hes looking for a place too, too many memories here. I'll keep you guys updated.
Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild
No longer together
"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss
Posts: 2895 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 32753
| Posted: 4:15 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013|
You're doing good and it sounds like you're getting the support you need from your BFFs. It'll be hard, but keep going. You can do it.
Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.
Posts: 3989 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Member # 31528
| Posted: 6:38 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013|
Posts: 38216 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 18449
| Posted: 6:43 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013|
I'm wishing you well in this next chapter of your life. I'm kind-of excited for you!
Posts: 11814 | Registered: Mar 2008
Member # 36684
| Posted: 6:48 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013|
Thanks for the update!
I've been wondering how you were doing.
Sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted it to.
FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 8 years
"Your secrets keep you sick"
Posts: 1158 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Member # 33886
| Posted: 11:50 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013|
Been thinking about you.
"You give me that bottom of the 9th, last at bat, tied game, grand slam, full of butterflies kind of feeling." - My Husband
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Posts: 6770 | Registered: Nov 2011
Member # 40076
| Posted: 3:47 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013|
Was wondering where you were - almost sent you a PM but thought you might be taking some "time off" from SI...
I'm glad you found a place. Now you just need to find somebody more deserving of your awesome self. Not right away, of course...
me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day
married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m
"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."
Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
Member # 27303
| Posted: 9:05 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013|
Hang in there
You are stronger than you think you are
Me-42 FWW Him-45BH
M 14 years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Prior A from 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut
Posts: 2021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: The SouthEast
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