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Month 4 - feeling down and more lies...
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CatchyUsername posted 8/28/2013 17:53 PM
I am feeling very very low. In addition to the A, I have been caring for my injured mom and fighting with my siblings. I feel homeless. WH divulged some new lies last weekend. Smaller ones - not full blown As. But they were flirty relationships with other women over the years that he concealed. Prior to that I had packaged the A as an anomaly. 3 months of abnormal behavior. Now it seems that it may have been pretty normal and I am questioning how I even fell in love with him.
Our MC says to ride it out. That the depression is a phase and that I should not make any decisions right now.
I guess I don't really have a question - just wanted to share. I feel quite alone in all of this. Oh, and we are going on vacation next week just the two of us.
unfound posted 8/28/2013 18:44 PM
Sounds like you need some down time.
You don't have to make any decisions right now...Keep an eye on the depression though. A phase will pass, but sometimes it sticks around.
He did tell you the truth, which is a good thing. Hopefully he'll continue doing good and you'll be able to start healing as well.
Skan posted 8/28/2013 22:22 PM
You have a hell of a lot on your plate right now. Please find some time to be kind to yourself. (((hugs)))
guarded posted 8/29/2013 08:37 AM
Your family situation is very similar to mine this year. I really struggled with this Bc the stress of my mom and family fighting intensified the A stress, bringing it back to the forefront.
Then I felt guilty for focusing and thinking so much about A when I had so much more severe family issues going on.
I just am wishing you strength to get through it all. Hugs and good luck.