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kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 3:17 AM on Thursday, August 29th, 2013
I'm day 4 into our separation and it wasn't a bad day. I was able to keep my feelings in check and actually nor obsess as much as I have been. I was able to focus at work for the first time.
There was one point during the day where I read an e-mail from my wife to my daughter's teachers which triggered some anger, but it went away fairly quickly. The trigger was about the sentence where she told the teachers that she and I were separated. So nothing inflammatory, but I guess seeing it solidified like that in the e-mail was the trigger.
But overall it was a good day. Of course that means tomorrow will probably suck, but I'll take what I can get right now.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 5:43 AM on Thursday, August 29th, 2013
That sounds like a decent day all right! The roller coaster has a different set of bumps and curves after S starts so give youself a little time to settle in and adjust to "you time"
Keep posting if things get icky. We are here for you!
(((kg201)))
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 3:22 PM on Thursday, August 29th, 2013
At Day 4, "Not a bad day" is fantastic!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:39 PM on Thursday, August 29th, 2013
⬆⬆⬆⬆⬆what pass said
Remember this feeling when the. Ext dip happens.
Hugs
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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