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User Topic: Not a bad day
♂ 40173
Member # 40173
Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm day 4 into our separation and it wasn't a bad day. I was able to keep my feelings in check and actually nor obsess as much as I have been. I was able to focus at work for the first time.

There was one point during the day where I read an e-mail from my wife to my daughter's teachers which triggered some anger, but it went away fairly quickly. The trigger was about the sentence where she told the teachers that she and I were separated. So nothing inflammatory, but I guess seeing it solidified like that in the e-mail was the trigger.

But overall it was a good day. Of course that means tomorrow will probably suck, but I'll take what I can get right now.

Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

Posts: 1155 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds like a decent day all right! The roller coaster has a different set of bumps and curves after S starts so give youself a little time to settle in and adjust to "you time"

Keep posting if things get icky. We are here for you!


FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

Posts: 2071 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At Day 4, "Not a bad day" is fantastic!

Me: 1970
Two sons: 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3583 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
♀ 36134
Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

⬆⬆⬆⬆⬆what pass said

Remember this feeling when the. Ext dip happens.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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