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User Topic: Not a bad day
kg201
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm day 4 into our separation and it wasn't a bad day. I was able to keep my feelings in check and actually nor obsess as much as I have been. I was able to focus at work for the first time.

There was one point during the day where I read an e-mail from my wife to my daughter's teachers which triggered some anger, but it went away fairly quickly. The trigger was about the sentence where she told the teachers that she and I were separated. So nothing inflammatory, but I guess seeing it solidified like that in the e-mail was the trigger.

But overall it was a good day. Of course that means tomorrow will probably suck, but I'll take what I can get right now.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 778 | Registered: Aug 2013
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sounds like a decent day all right! The roller coaster has a different set of bumps and curves after S starts so give youself a little time to settle in and adjust to "you time"

Keep posting if things get icky. We are here for you!

(((kg201)))


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1237 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 9:22 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At Day 4, "Not a bad day" is fantastic!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2157 | Registered: Jan 2013
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

⬆⬆⬆⬆⬆what pass said

Remember this feeling when the. Ext dip happens.

Hugs
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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