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Posted a little while back at how much I hated that we will see this so called person at my sons rocket football practices. Her son is on another team and my H saw her at the practice fields. I have not had to see her because of college and volunteer work schedule.

Well today was team picture day. I know so many people in the area because of my volunteer work. Since I am connected with other higher standing people in the community I was making my rounds of saying hi to everyone. I also work with young children in the area and so many of the kids I have worked with were there and I had to say hi to them

She stood over by her sons team looking around for someone to talk to. Other team moms seem to be annoyed at having to make small talk with someone they don't know or don't like. She left as soon as possible. We stayed around and socialized with others because of everyone we know in town. It felt so great to be able to go about my business as if nothing happened and her just as pathetic as always. Now if she would just move out of town my life would be great.

I'm so glad that you got to do that and feel comfortable in your own space. That truly is the mark of getting past caring about them or what they do.

Bottom line: be proud of who you are!! That situation proved that being an honest, giving person with integrity pays you back tremendously.
People who lie, cheat, gossip and are SELF centered might have attention early on, but sooner or later people catch on and eventually it bites you in the @$$.
Remember this day when you are feeling down. And keep volunteering and helping. YOU are the one who wins in the end! :)

You should be proud! This is YOUR HOUSE. Let her skulk away!

I needed to read this again. Feeling down from stress unrelated to the A. So glad just a few hours ago I was so happy.