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User Topic: Karma...Maybe...but update on seeing OW#1
Hearthache again
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Member # 28564
Happy  Posted: 9:31 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Posted a little while back at how much I hated that we will see this so called person at my sons rocket football practices. Her son is on another team and my H saw her at the practice fields. I have not had to see her because of college and volunteer work schedule.

Well today was team picture day. I know so many people in the area because of my volunteer work. Since I am connected with other higher standing people in the community I was making my rounds of saying hi to everyone. I also work with young children in the area and so many of the kids I have worked with were there and I had to say hi to them

She stood over by her sons team looking around for someone to talk to. Other team moms seem to be annoyed at having to make small talk with someone they don't know or don't like. She left as soon as possible. We stayed around and socialized with others because of everyone we know in town. It felt so great to be able to go about my business as if nothing happened and her just as pathetic as always. Now if she would just move out of town my life would be great.


Me-BS(32)
Him-WS(35)
Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!


Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad that you got to do that and feel comfortable in your own space. That truly is the mark of getting past caring about them or what they do.


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

Posts: 18371 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
TS68
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Member # 40211
Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bottom line: be proud of who you are!! That situation proved that being an honest, giving person with integrity pays you back tremendously.
People who lie, cheat, gossip and are SELF centered might have attention early on, but sooner or later people catch on and eventually it bites you in the @$$.
Remember this day when you are feeling down. And keep volunteering and helping. YOU are the one who wins in the end! :)


Married 20 years

Posts: 251 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
RightTrack
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Member # 36976
Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should be proud! This is YOUR HOUSE. Let her skulk away!

Posts: 643 | Registered: Sep 2012
Hearthache again
♀ 28564
Member # 28564
Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I needed to read this again. Feeling down from stress unrelated to the A. So glad just a few hours ago I was so happy.


Me-BS(32)
Him-WS(35)
Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!


Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
Topic Posts: 5

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