My BS has been trying to convince everyone (his family/my family) that he cheated on me because I verbally abused him. Sure, I got married really young and said stupid stuff when we first got married (I wish I never married him etc) but only when he was aggressive towards me. But he is justifying his actions by saying he was verbally abused etc.
We had our family court mediation meeting and my BS filed for Domestic Violence saying that I verbally Abused him.
It is frustrating because I know he is going to tell everyone that its the reason we got divorced. Trying to play the victim again.