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User Topic: polygraph test before moving on?
DaturaMetel
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Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been thinking a lot about this on whether or not I should ask her to take the polygraph test before moving forward with R. Is this a good idea or bad? I want to make sure that everything from this point forward is nothing but the truth.


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brokensmile322
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is a personal choice. Many people have had them done with great success. It finally helped them move on.

You really just need to ask yourself what you would do if she passes or if she fails. Whatever the consequence, are you willing to follow through?

If she passes, she will be a rockstar. If she fails, she could claim they are not accurate rather than admit to lying. You need to be willing to listen to the test and not to her at that point. Will you be able to do that?

Good luck!


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DaturaMetel
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thx brokensmile. Makes complete sense. I need to think hard about this one. I never thought that I could stay with someone after this but here I still am. I would fear that I still might not leave her if she didnt pass. thx again


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Dday: 08/16/2013
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