I resisted technology when it came to reading.. I loved my books.
Recently, Mr unfound got me a kindle for my birthday. He even went so far as to load EVERY book I own to it before he gave it to me, plus the entire works of every author of the books I had. yeh, he's a great guy .
Thing is, even though I've read a few books (it's hard for me to even call them books now ) on the kindle, it isn't the same... While the idea of having it for certain situations, like while traveling, having access to ebooks without a computer, and instant access to new releases is great, I still don't feel the same reading it.
Am I just out of touch with the 21st century? Am I just set in my ways? Is the physical process of reading a book just as much a part of what makes it enjoyable as the material to me?
I absolutely adore the thought mr unfound put into this. He doesn't share my love of reading for pleasure and doesn't understand the "act" of reading and all it entails. I do get a warm fuzzy feeling knowing I have ALL my books and will have ALL my books in one little compact place at my ready whenever I want, and he's tickled he could give that to me... but it's not the same, kwim? Like photographs on a disk, not the same as printed ones that you can hold.
Does this make sense?
Maybe I'll learn to love it and the new reading experience, but there's a part of me that already misses the feel of a good book in my hands. My shelves won't be emptied any time soon.. or ever .
What actually helped was me getting a 10inch tablet and putting the kindle aps on that instead of my original little grey one. I can change the screen from white to sepia or black etc., so I have variety again, or maybe it's just as simple as the fact that I've just got used to it. I don't know - but somehow, I've gone from using kindle under 'duress' really, to almost preferring it now - and I *NEVER* thought I would say that. ( But I'm still not going to be throwing any of my paper books I already have out... )
ETA, I also buy audio books now too - they are GREAT. Seems I may have finally moved into the modern age afterall....
[This message edited by sinsof thefather at 8:58 AM, August 29th (Thursday)]
I used to travel for my job, so I could tuck it in my purse and download a new book while sitting at the airport. I can read it in bed with all of the lights out.
Once in a while, I still like to turn pages...
Honey, I got my kindle and haven't looked back. Best. Purchase. Ever. The thought of having to lug around a book, lose my bookmark, try to prop it up while I'm eating, etc. give me the shivers.
Nope, it took awhile to get me to kindle, but I'm converted 100%. Just my $.02, tho.
I cannot, cannot, cannot as much as I try, get into reading on a kindle. I hate it. I even enjoy going to the library browsing for books.
I will say one time when I wish I had my kindle with me was when I was on a beach vacation. I only brought one book and I finished it half way through and had nothing else to read. THAT'S when a kindle comes in handy! You can just order another one.
But otherwise, no. I'll stick with my books.
But then...I found it really hard to maintain my focus when I was reading. I think because hey, wifi! I could go online. Or play on pinterest. Or check my effing work email. It was like an ADD playground.
So this summer I went back to paper books and I've read 7. I think I made it through about 7 books all last year. I was really starting to think I had caught The Dumb.
So now I travel with the ipad, but read paper books at home. We'll see if this works better!
Rebreather, I don't even know how mine connects to the internet . Mr unfound had everything set up for me already and hasn't shown me how to order books or go anywhere other than the stocked library.... that might be a good thing .
[This message edited by kernel at 6:03 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)]
I still go to the library for the new releases of my favorite authors and I still buy real books just not as often.
I love physical books, but quite frankly after years of collecting them (I read 3 books per week on average), I have no more room to store them! I still collect a precious few authors and series, but have donated/sold others to make room in my house again.
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
I still occasionally read a real book, and the change is refreshing. The problem I find I have with it, I can never remember the names of the books I have read because I only see the title once or twice, instead of it sitting on my nightstand for the week or two it takes me to read it. LOL.
I think I would like a fire, for the option of reading it without additional light, I like to read at bedtime, and the lamp bothers H, so I wear a headlamp on the red setting so it doesn't bother him, and it doesn't bother my eyes. But I do look really sexy lying in bed in my jammies with my kindle, and my camo headlamp. LOL>
Yep, so when someone tries to strike up a convo with; "What are you reading?" - what do you think their expression might be when I reply; "I dunno."
haha - it has happened a time or two!
I got a paperwhite to read w/out light...I think it's cheaper than the fire...
Oh, they do have covers for them, so you can get near the 'book-feel'.
I have one similar for my fire. It gives it a nice bookish feel in addition to protecting it.
Over vacation she had been letting the kids listen to it read books aloud to fall asleep too.. but one of them broke her kindle. We went out and got a spare the next day because it was like if she had stood in front of a library watching it burn with a horrified expression. She needed her library or there would be many sad vacation days. Since it ties books to an account she had it unpacked and restocked with her library by the time we left Cook Out and their free wifi (COOK OUT IS FUCKING AWESOME BTW), which was convenient.
[This message edited by StillGoing at 9:24 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)]
I have a leather cover for my kindle as well.
Using the Cloud technology is great too, we share books through the house, just like we would real ones. It's really nice because we can all read the same book at the same time.
I've had mine for about 4 years. Hardly ever buy a book anymore and when I do...I normally do not read it??
I travel a lot as well...so much easier.
I waited about 6 months until I decided to donate most of my books to the library. 783 to be exact. I still kept my favorite authors, but can not imagine going anywhere today without my kindle. Literally. It is always in my purse.
[This message edited by AnnieOakley at 10:03 PM, September 12th (Thursday)]
I still buy hardcovers too...there are some books I just know I want to read again and the smell of a new book.....well they haven't added that to the Kindle yet....but who knows maybe they will!
I had the same problem as well. I conquered that problem by creating folders. I have each book sorted under a specific folder, i.e. mystery, sci-fi, cookbooks, etc, and I have an 'active' folder for the books that I'm currently reading.
My biggest problem is remembering which books I downloaded. I can't just glance at the spines anymore.
THAT sold me and I love it. When I travel I don't have to cart around 10 books and come back home with 5 I already read but have to return. WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER
Because in my situation I didn't know if I was the OW at first or if I was being cheated on. Found I was being cheated on.