Since my WH is now out of the house and staying in my parent's guesthouse I'm sure he has a lot of free time. If I remember correctly, there is no TV in there. Anyway, I was trying to think of some books to send his way to help him realize what he's done, the depth of what he's done and how to start fixing it. I am not sure that I want to point him in the direction of this website. I don't really want him to have access to my posts.