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♀ 40131
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since my WH is now out of the house and staying in my parent's guesthouse I'm sure he has a lot of free time. If I remember correctly, there is no TV in there. Anyway, I was trying to think of some books to send his way to help him realize what he's done, the depth of what he's done and how to start fixing it. I am not sure that I want to point him in the direction of this website. I don't really want him to have access to my posts.


Posts: 80 | Registered: Jul 2013
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"How to help your spouse heal from your affair" really helped my WS and its not a long book at all.

Me (BS): 36
Him aka narcissistic psychopath (WS): 36
Married 17 years 6 kids ages 16-7
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

Filed for divorce 5/8/15

Posts: 326 | Registered: Jun 2013
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was thinking that one, too. I've seen people mention it on here, and I was thinking of ordering it for my WH as well.

Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

Posts: 379 | Registered: Aug 2013
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Member # 40330
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Heal Library has a link for books. You could go through and get an idea of which ones you think would benefit your WS and share them with him, without sharing links that would refer you back to the website. I do believe amazon has most of the books. You may check your local library as well!

DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.

Posts: 138 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: kentucky
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Default  Posted: 2:05 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The best book I have read is" after the affair, by Janice Abrahms. You should both read it


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
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