Me BS 42 Him WS 44
I have a general question of for you. I am not in this forum at the moment, but I read it often.
My GF is going through a D with her husband who is making her life miserable. You know the story.
He questions how good of mom she is and makes her feel guilty. He also makes references to her dating and being a slut. She has not done so yet. Her kids are her priority. I really thinks he does it to bully her, in advance, if you KWIM?
Anyway, I was out with my WH this past weekend. Her STBxh was out with a female at a VERY local restaurant. He is not friends with my husband. Made an effort to be seen by both of us by tapping my husband on the shoulder. Later he sent an inapropriate pic of this female to my husband. My WH doesn't even have him in his phone. It is so bizarre.
Anyway, I don't think my GF really cares for him anymore. I do think it would hurt either way. How could it not?
Should I mention it to her? That he is showing up in our town restaurants? Or do I let it go?
I think I would want to know but I am unsure of what the right thing is to do.
I kind of think he wants me to tell her which is one reason why I have not...almost like he wants to hurt her with it.
What do you all think? TIA!!
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
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When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl
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