I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.
Is your daughter good friends with her? If they aren't friends, you can probably get away with dealing with her as little as possible.
I hate to say it, but I would deal with this woman over having your H interact with her. :/
I would try to find something about this woman that does NOT fit OW's description at all. Then whenever you see her and think of OW, immediately think of everything about this parent that is NOT like OW, and talk yourself out of those thoughts. With her daughter- same thing. Everytime you hear the name and trigger, look at the sweet little girl and remember that she is not a skanky whore- she is a sweet child in your daughter's class.
Hang in there!!
"What did you expect? I am a scorpion."