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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We took a big step today and switched our kids to a different school. We found out that our youngest would be in the same class as WH's AP's son and after losing myself for a couple of days I realized it wasn't worth the hassle and we signed then up today.

I'm sad. We loved their school and was looking forward to spending a lot of fun times with the families we had grown to know. Now that is all gone.

People are shocked that we are leaving. I guess I did a better job of hiding my anger than I thought.

I'm hoping this is a step in the right direction for WH and I.

[This message edited by Zayda1 at 7:05 PM, August 29th (Thursday)]

Married 9 years, together for 11 years
2 children (8 years & 5 years)
Discovery of PA 04/15/12 (It only lasted a "couple of weeks" but it still shattered my world.)

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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like this was a really tough decision, but most likely the right decision. It would be a lot more difficult if your youngest child developed a bond or friendship with the AP's son, and then you had to take them out of the school.

I think you did the right thing.

Best of luck with moving forward in this new direction.

"I'm touched by the idea that when we do things that are useful and helpful -- collecting these shards of spirituality -- that we may be helping to bring about a healing." Leonard Nimoy

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