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User Topic: Ex is Hiding Wedding Ring
Just Stunned
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So last week, when Ex came to pick up our son I noticed that there was a wedding ring on his finger. At first I think I went into kind of a denial phase and told myself that it was just a ring that looked like a wedding ring on his ring finger! But then Ex started talking a mile a minute and I knew...

I didn't say a word while he was there and he continued to try to talk to me. This ring. I think the cowardly ass has been taking it off before he comes over.

Sigh... I knew this was coming. Even though I've emphasized over a over again to my friends that I don't want to know anything about his life, my closest friends always try to warn me when something is happening. A few months back the skank posted a picture of her engagment ring on FB.

I just can't believe that he's hiding it. On the one hand it's kinda funny that he takes the ring off in my presence. I don't know whether to be offended or amused that he's scared to tell he married the chick on the side.

I'm just so sad for my little boy. He deserves so much better than this!

Posts: 123 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: just stunned
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs. Obviously he is ashamed if he s taking the ring off. He obviously isn't so committed to her now is he? *hugs*

Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 680 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Just Stunned))) It's funny how they get with that stuff. My XH has almost the exact same wedding ring he had when he and I were married. That's just creepy.

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
Fooled Me Twice
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a feeling that I will also be in this position. I can see my ex hiding his ring from me. After all, when he drops DD off I can only surmise that if howorker is with him he parks in BFE so I can't see his car vs when she's clearly not there, he parks in front of my house.

Ashamed much? Worried of what I might do? Say? Please - bitches, she's not worth my time!

ME: BS 33 (now 34)
HIM: WS 33 (now 35)
OW: 22, howorker (now 24)
July 2007: Porn found on computer along with profiles on dating websites.
DDay: January 16, 2012 - suspicious since Dec 2011
Divorced: June 11, 2013

Posts: 209 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Here and There
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