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Just Stunned posted 8/29/2013 20:47 PM

So last week, when Ex came to pick up our son I noticed that there was a wedding ring on his finger. At first I think I went into kind of a denial phase and told myself that it was just a ring that looked like a wedding ring on his ring finger! But then Ex started talking a mile a minute and I knew...

I didn't say a word while he was there and he continued to try to talk to me. This week...no ring. I think the cowardly ass has been taking it off before he comes over.

Sigh... I knew this was coming. Even though I've emphasized over a over again to my friends that I don't want to know anything about his life, my closest friends always try to warn me when something is happening. A few months back the skank posted a picture of her engagment ring on FB.

I just can't believe that he's hiding it. On the one hand it's kinda funny that he takes the ring off in my presence. I don't know whether to be offended or amused that he's scared to tell he married the chick on the side.

I'm just so sad for my little boy. He deserves so much better than this!

movingforward13 posted 8/30/2013 12:02 PM

Hugs. Obviously he is ashamed if he s taking the ring off. He obviously isn't so committed to her now is he? *hugs*

lostmommy posted 8/30/2013 12:28 PM

(((Just Stunned))) It's funny how they get with that stuff. My XH has almost the exact same wedding ring he had when he and I were married. That's just creepy.

Fooled Me Twice posted 8/30/2013 20:54 PM

I have a feeling that I will also be in this position. I can see my ex hiding his ring from me. After all, when he drops DD off I can only surmise that if howorker is with him he parks in BFE so I can't see his car vs when she's clearly not there, he parks in front of my house.

Ashamed much? Worried of what I might do? Say? Please - bitches, she's not worth my time!