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Spitfire77 (original poster member #24486) posted at 3:24 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013
His dumbass is back in contact with the first OW.
I know, we're divorcing. It shouldn't matter.
But his dumb ass added her birthday to the calendar to his phone that still gets shared to our family Sky Drive calendar.
Is it wrong that it pisses me off? That I felt that same, sick to my stomach sort of feeling when I saw it on the calendar?
I'm really not okay, am I?
BW (Me): 32
WH (Him): 32
Married: Dec. 04
Two kids, 6 & 4
Divorce will be final 26 SEP 13
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:28 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013
You don't have to be ok with this. If you need permission to be angry - I'll give it. I've been divorced for 10 years, I would not want to see her birthday on my calendar. I would definitely be angry.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Spitfire77 (original poster member #24486) posted at 3:31 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013
Thanks Kajem.
I just feel like after four years of telling me that she meant nothing, obviously she did if he was willing to pick back up with her after OW#2 dumped him.
BW (Me): 32
WH (Him): 32
Married: Dec. 04
Two kids, 6 & 4
Divorce will be final 26 SEP 13
brokenandconfuse ( member #39381) posted at 3:38 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013
The same thing happened to me. The second that I filed for D, he went back to OW1 and OW2 and his ex-wife. It hurts like hell.
2DS, 2DD
BS-Me 32
WH-Him 43
DDay-All 14 years of our relationship. 3PA's, 3 one night stands, and 6 EA's and still counting as we go. Gained enough strength to face it 11/2012
Getting Divorced
Fooled Me Twice ( member #34824) posted at 2:47 AM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013
Try and look at it like this - she's just sloppy seconds. How special is she really - he's only with her because he's lonely now - a place and time filler. That's not what I want to be to someone.
ME: BS 33 (now 34)
HIM: WS 33 (now 35)
OW: 22, howorker (now 24)
July 2007: Porn found on computer along with profiles on dating websites.
DDay: January 16, 2012 - suspicious since Dec 2011
Divorced: June 11, 2013
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