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Spitfire77 posted 8/29/2013 21:24 PM

His dumbass is back in contact with the first OW.

I know, we're divorcing. It shouldn't matter.

But his dumb ass added her birthday to the calendar to his phone that still gets shared to our family Sky Drive calendar.

Is it wrong that it pisses me off? That I felt that same, sick to my stomach sort of feeling when I saw it on the calendar?

I'm really not okay, am I?

Kajem posted 8/29/2013 21:28 PM

You don't have to be ok with this. If you need permission to be angry - I'll give it. I've been divorced for 10 years, I would not want to see her birthday on my calendar. I would definitely be angry.


Spitfire77 posted 8/29/2013 21:31 PM

Thanks Kajem.

I just feel like after four years of telling me that she meant nothing, obviously she did if he was willing to pick back up with her after OW#2 dumped him.

brokenandconfuse posted 8/30/2013 09:38 AM

The same thing happened to me. The second that I filed for D, he went back to OW1 and OW2 and his ex-wife. It hurts like hell.

Fooled Me Twice posted 8/30/2013 20:47 PM

Try and look at it like this - she's just sloppy seconds. How special is she really - he's only with her because he's lonely now - a place and time filler. That's not what I want to be to someone.

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