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User Topic: Lesson for the boys growing up in this world
♀ 15334
Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 9:34 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know there is a lot of controversy about the Miley Cyrus/Robin Thicke act on VMA awards.

I saw this article and I thought it was great, reflecting on how to talk to your son about it.

Excerpt: Your dad is no celebrity. Hes just an average, boring guy. But hes got something that every famous and non-famous womanizer envies: Hes got the love and commitment of ONE beautiful, smart, faithful woman. Hes got your mom, and hell only have your mom until the day he dies.

{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 11998 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
♀ 36763
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, August 29th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I remember when this song first came out, I didn't care for the lyrics, it was not a very good song in my opinion. Then I heard that it had a video with nude women in it, I was like eww what a dick that Robin Thick, he has no respect for his wife. I don't care if his wife is ok with it or not it is still disrespectful for him to do that.

Then my husband starts talking about the video, and goes and watches it. I lost a bit of respect for him for wanting to watch a video of naked hoes. We had a no nasties agreement too. He said he didn't think it counted.

Does a video of naked women count as nasties or am I carazy!?

Men these days definitely leave something to be desired, with their porn and objectification of anything, man woman or child.

me WW/BW-34
him BH/WH- 34

2002/3 (him) EA

PA(me)-Nov 2007

Tog. 16 yrs, Marr. 15 and counting!

Still R'd

Posts: 180 | Registered: Sep 2012
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 12:28 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I've watched that video, the unrated (aka X rated) version. It counts, Hon.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!

Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
♂ 37455
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some of us might have written that letter. Maybe wished that our dads had written it to us.

just saying

BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 5493 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, that's given me some hope in mankind again. I tend to agree with the frenzy over Miley and not much about the man on stage with her. My girls grew up with Hannah Montana and it made me sad to see her. Strange how these celebrity girls just have to prove, I'm a big girl now, in such a manner. I was far more disgusted with Robin Thicke. I would hate to be his wife.
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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