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User Topic: Weekend!!!
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Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just lounging around tonight. Having a beer (or two) after quite a stressful day at work.

Saturday -- Running 20 miles in the morning, then a colleague's wedding reception in the afternoon, then probably going out with some friends.

Sunday -- probably a shorter run. Maybe going to the beer garden before warm weather ends :(

Monday -- no work! I have some things I need to do around the house. Maybe watch a movie. Probably a run. Should do some yoga. Maybe go into work for a bit.

Hope everyone has a fabulous Labor Day weekend!!!

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

Posts: 4467 | Registered: Dec 2011
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like a great weekend phmh!

I'm taking my niece shopping tonight, probably house work and baking on Saturday for a pot luck get together with friends on Sunday, then Monday, no work, no plans, bliss!

“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3640 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have my kiddos this weekend! :) Tonight we are going to watch some movies on Netflix. Tomorrow we're going to my cousin's wedding. Sunday will be church and family time. Then, I think we'll do a little shopping on Monday.

Happy Labor Day!!

Me (BS)- 36
Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's Father's Day here tomorrow so the ex has actually cleared his schedule to have the children for all of 6 hours, even though I offered for him to have them for the weekend or at least o/n but I guess 6 hours is enough to parade around what a good father he is
So I will be going out to lunch with some friends.
Today I have to take my mother to a medical appointment as she can't drive and do the housework (boring)!

Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.

Posts: 1530 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No plans tonight. I wanted to go to a zumba fundraiser event, but I was feeling too stressed to leave the house. Today was an overwhelming day, but all is better now! Thinking about doing some laundry and just playing online.

Saturday - going to a zumba event with SO, bff and her hubby. SO and I might take his aunt out looking at computers, but not sure. I'm going out to dinner with a girlfriend that I haven't seen in too many months!

Sunday - church in the morning. no plans after that besides visiting SO's parents. Maybe I'll see if his mom wants to do something.

Monday - nothing going on. the kids will be coming home that night.

Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.

Posts: 4794 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm planned to run 18 on Sunday and I'm SO nervous! I'm training for my 3rd marathon and I haven't run that distance in almost 2 years.... I'm just gonna take it slow and one mile at a time....

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

Posts: 2767 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoping to cut grass tomorrow. Possibly shaking lemonades for a friend at a local festival on Sunday.

Taking it easy on Monday. I took today off. I haven't worked a Friday since June, so I'm trying to keep the streak alive.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9168 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tonight was a whole lot of nothing.

Saturday will be cleaning, cleaning, cleaning.

Sunday shopping for school outfits.

Monday is a picnic at my sister's. Which means Saturday will also include shopping for alcohol of some kind to get me through Monday.

When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."

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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had a friend over for pizza and a movie tonight; off to bed soon.

Tomorrow-- errands to run, pedicure, time for schoolwork or chores, then a big family celebration for my parents' 50th anniversary.

Sunday-- chores and schoolwork

Monday-- chores, schoolwork, possibly a little time for hanging out with a friend before it's back to school for this teacher!

Happy Labor Day, everyone!

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I stayed home last night - made dinner, had some wine, and chatted with SO. Oh, and played on facebook.

Today I've already done my bike ride, and in a couple of hours, at least one of my sons and I will be meeting my sister for lunch. Then I'm headed to my mom's to take care of some stuff and take her grocery shopping.

The rest of the weekend will be doing the usual chore stuff - laundry, cleaning the kitchen, etc. Oh, and paying bills. Can't forget about that. Woohoo, so exciting.

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

Posts: 13029 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

US Open tennis on TV ALL weekend. Not getting off this couch!

Posts: 3446 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Buying DD jeans and sneakers. I can't believe how much she's grown this year. Hello preteen grow spurt...goodbye money.

We are going to watch the movie Epic.

Posts: 50779 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night I had some of my mom friends and kids over for swimming and dinner.

Today- going to the gym, grocery store and then a barbecue party.

Sunday- putting the kids in childcare at the gym and getting myself a massage! Later we're meeting friends/kids for a picnic at the splash pad.

Monday- probably a gym workout. I think STBX is going to take dd to see Turbo.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 1268 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

last night beer and pizza with one old friend and her friends (aka my new friends :)

Today, cleaning, laundry and drinks on my friend's patio this evening

Tomorrow: exercising at gym for sure, maybe make some pesto as my basil is calling me...

Labor Day; No plans yet...we'll have to see what happens...

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:54

Posts: 4130 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night I had dinner with some very dear friends, then we went to the local Downtown Friday Night event. This is a big college town, so it was pretty 'hip' Then I went back to their vacation home in Massachusetts with them and spent the night; it was wonderful.

This morning we walked around the area and talked for a while. Now I'm home relaxing. Tonight was supposed to be stargazing at a lake, but it's pretty cloudy & rainy, so I don't think that's going to happen.

The rest of the weekend? Who knows...

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last night I did coursework. Today was a CC meet. Late lunch with a friend and then drinks with the coaches and parents. Tomorrow a long run and catch up on school paperwork and grading.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4962 | Registered: Jan 2012
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I dropped off DD16 on Thursday morning for a four day out of town sporting event, and I took Friday off work. That means I have the house to myself until late Sunday. There are many things I NEED to do, but absolutely nothing that I HAVE to do, and rain is preventing outside chores anyway. Thus, I am enjoying ME time (more than just a few hours), with a periodic glass of wine, for the first time in longer than I can remember! It is great!

Have a great weekend everyone!

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~

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Posts: 4938 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference
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