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User Topic: Yet another thing xWH was wrong about
cayc
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Member # 21964
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My xWH always tried to make me think that I wasn't any good at what I did, I was mean, too combative, too quiet and that people didn't like me. He also tried to imply that I was a failure at work and his career was going so much better because you know, he's so fucking awesome.

Well fuck you xWH because this week I had an interim review and was basically told I was on the fast track and was considered a go to person on a certain kind of project and the front office was glad to know they had someone like me in their pocket, but also!!! today I not only was appointed team lead for the entire month of December ( a big deal honor) BUT EVEN BETTER I'm being sent to Mexico City for the entire month of September to use my expertise to clear out a back log of cases and help that site get caught up on their work.

These trips are exceptionally competitive, everyone wants to do them, and usually you have to do them at smaller/lesser sites first to earn the right to go to Mexico City.

So there xWH. Look what I accomplished just by being myself. Hah!


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

Posts: 3198 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

STANDING OVATION!!!!

Cayc - you are amazing. Truly amazing!

Congratulations on receiving the recognition you so clearly deserve.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26468 | Registered: Aug 2011
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woot! The awesomeness that is you is busting out to be recognized!

Good job!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7862 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
newlysingle
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Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! I'm so excited for you. I love Mexico City too. Enjoy!


BW - Me (38)
XWH -The Gnat
OW - Hello Kitty the Whore Engaged to the Gnat. I hear the white trash, wedding bells as we speak.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (7), 1 DS (2)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 983 | Registered: Mar 2013
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, that's amazing! YAY for you!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10128 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:29 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!

Posts: 36761 | Registered: Mar 2011
ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!!!!!


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CC-- You rock.
I'm going to guess that you weren't even jockeying for this position -- and you were chosen anyway.

You are so much more amazing than you even realize. It seems that everyone sees it but you.

*Hah* to your X is way too benign in this situation. I think it calls for a *go fuck yourself, douchebag!* response.

(and PS. Read the PM that I sent you a coupla weeks ago would ya? It will make you happy)


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8252 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 6:43 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!! The things we can do when nobody is dragging us down. Enjoy your trip.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SUCK IT XWH!!!! WHO IS THE FUCKING AWESOME ONE NOW!!??? WOOT WOOT!!!!

YOU GO GIRL!!! WELL EARNED! WELL DESERVED!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2732 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
movingforward13
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FTG! AWESOME JOB to you!


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 645 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
cmego
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You rock!


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4279 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

....and that my friend is how you walk away from the past in slow motion as it explodes behind you, like in a John Woo movie (*best.tagline.ever*).

I like them apples!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5733 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on the recognition at work!
Well fuck you xWH
INDEED!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

Posts: 3264 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
phmh
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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats, cayc!!!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3534 | Registered: Dec 2011
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!!
Oh and message to xWH:

Stick that in your pipe and smoke it!

Old fashioned saying but I did not define the exact pipe to which this saying refers....


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1726 | Registered: Mar 2004
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whoohoo! That's awesome news!

Screw you X!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5337 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
persevere
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post lady - congrats cayc!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4712 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

huh, sure sounds like he was DAMN WRONG!

People DO like you, because you are competent and enjoyable to work with, too!

Congratulations!


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1254 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
trebleclef
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You GO Girl!!!


True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

Posts: 1809 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: Alberta
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