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Topic: Just need to rant

Gemini71
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Posted: 10:09 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013

I've been dealing with riding the roller coaster in and out of BS fog, and trying to make some decisions for the future. So today, WH stopped by to pick up the boys for a camping trip this weekend. He brought me candy and flowers. REALLY!!!

Sure, that really makes up for sleeping with my best friend and some random Craig's List chic. Way to mess with my head. Too bad it will just backfire on him.

The Legal Separation papers are on their way.

[This message edited by Gemini71 at 10:10 PM, August 30th (Friday)]

Edited to correct stupid typos.

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.

Posts: 2339 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA

Skan
♀ 35812
Member # 35812

Posted: 12:34 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013

Far too little, far too late. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 5550 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California

Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349

Posted: 1:05 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013

What, no jewelry?

I'm really glad you can see this for what it really is.

(((Gemini71)))

"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron

Posts: 20726 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California

nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226

Posted: 8:11 PM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013

((((Gemini))))

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28187 | Registered: Aug 2011

Nest2007
♀ 39532
Member # 39532

Posted: 10:06 PM, September 1st (Sunday), 2013

Ha! I feel the same way about my former friend and OW. You can't 'nice' your way out of having slept with my WH. He, at least, is showing genuine remorse and his actions and words prove he's serious about R. Some people are just so stupid. SMH!

BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13

Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.

Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.

Posts: 230 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Here and there...

Gemini71
♀ 40115
Member # 40115

Posted: 3:35 AM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013

Believe it or not, his peace offering of bringing me candy and flowers, has turned into the catalyst for filing for D. It has pointed out to me just how broken my trust of him is, and just how far up his a$$ his head must be.

I have been asking for the past 2 weeks for him to make a marriage counseling appointment for us. That's what I really wanted. Not candy and flowers.

Now its just too little, way to late.

Edited to correct stupid typos.

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.

Posts: 2339 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA

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