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Gemini71 posted 8/30/2013 22:09 PM

I've been dealing with riding the roller coaster in and out of BS fog, and trying to make some decisions for the future. So today, WH stopped by to pick up the boys for a camping trip this weekend. He brought me candy and flowers. REALLY!!!

Sure, that really makes up for sleeping with my best friend and some random Craig's List chic. Way to mess with my head. Too bad it will just backfire on him.

The Legal Separation papers are on their way.

[This message edited by Gemini71 at 10:10 PM, August 30th (Friday)]

Skan posted 8/31/2013 12:34 PM

Far too little, far too late. (((hugs)))

Jrazz posted 8/31/2013 13:05 PM

What, no jewelry?

I'm really glad you can see this for what it really is.

(((Gemini71)))

nowiknow23 posted 9/1/2013 20:11 PM

((((Gemini))))

Nest2007 posted 9/1/2013 22:06 PM

Ha! I feel the same way about my former friend and OW. You can't 'nice' your way out of having slept with my WH. He, at least, is showing genuine remorse and his actions and words prove he's serious about R. Some people are just so stupid. SMH!

Gemini71 posted 9/2/2013 03:35 AM

Believe it or not, his peace offering of bringing me candy and flowers, has turned into the catalyst for filing for D. It has pointed out to me just how broken my trust of him is, and just how far up his a$$ his head must be.

I have been asking for the past 2 weeks for him to make a marriage counseling appointment for us. That's what I really wanted. Not candy and flowers.

Now its just too little, way to late.