Topic: Having a Bad night
Member # 30905
| Posted: 11:21 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013|
Dday number 2 not sure what i want to do. Hes crying, begging me to stay but im not sure i can take anymore. Last one was a philipino hostess girl, who stalked me for months, which was scary, because we were in asia and i cant speak japanese. The new one invited him to come check out her church and then she fucks him in the parking lot after the service. Classy. God, what did i do to deserve this shit.
Posts: 240 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 39406
| Posted: 1:40 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013|
Split. Just start running and figure out the rest later.
Me: BH - Happily Remarried, but dealing with old stuff
“I'm losing my mind in a bedroom with a ghost
and I'm losing my mind in a bottle while I choke
I stayed years with you, no one knows (but I want them to).”
– Thought Industry
Posts: 44 | Registered: May 2013
Member # 38660
| Posted: 6:04 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013|
I'm so sorry honey. The pain of DDay 1 is only outdone by DDay 2. So many of us here have been where you are and understand. Stay strong and keep posting.
"Never, never, never give up." - Winston Churchill
Posts: 138 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Member # 40306
| Posted: 9:08 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013|
I'm so sorry. (((Hugs)))
I think there is something in the air today...having a rough day here as well...
Don't make any hasty decisions.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.
Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 35812
| Posted: 9:45 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013|
First off, you didn't one damned thing to cause OR deserve this shit. It was all decisions that your WH made. Decisions, not choices.
Detach, detach, detach, and use the 180 to figure out what you want, need, and deserve. You certainly don't deserve to be strung along like this with continual lying. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 5255 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 39996
| Posted: 10:00 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013|
This is what would happen if I was in your shoes......the guys ass would be punted as fast as I could open the door. On second thought I might not even open that door I would just punt him harder!
Sorry if that was too honest. But I read enough stuff about BS's dealing with more then one AP and I know I could never stand for that.
Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!
Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
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