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inmisery1 posted 8/30/2013 23:21 PM

Dday number 2 not sure what i want to do. Hes crying, begging me to stay but im not sure i can take anymore. Last one was a philipino hostess girl, who stalked me for months, which was scary, because we were in asia and i cant speak japanese. The new one invited him to come check out her church and then she fucks him in the parking lot after the service. Classy. God, what did i do to deserve this shit.

DecadeCentrifuge posted 8/31/2013 01:40 AM

Split. Just start running and figure out the rest later.

noprincess posted 8/31/2013 06:04 AM

((((inmisery1))))

I'm so sorry honey. The pain of DDay 1 is only outdone by DDay 2. So many of us here have been where you are and understand. Stay strong and keep posting.

nekorb posted 8/31/2013 21:08 PM

I'm so sorry. (((Hugs)))

I think there is something in the air today...having a rough day here as well...

Don't make any hasty decisions.

Skan posted 8/31/2013 21:45 PM

First off, you didn't one damned thing to cause OR deserve this shit. It was all decisions that your WH made. Decisions, not choices.

Detach, detach, detach, and use the 180 to figure out what you want, need, and deserve. You certainly don't deserve to be strung along like this with continual lying. (((hugs)))

TxsT posted 8/31/2013 22:00 PM

This is what would happen if I was in your shoes......the guys ass would be punted as fast as I could open the door. On second thought I might not even open that door I would just punt him harder!

Sorry if that was too honest. But I read enough stuff about BS's dealing with more then one AP and I know I could never stand for that.

T