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User Topic: Having a Bad night
♀ 30905
Member # 30905
Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, August 30th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dday number 2 not sure what i want to do. Hes crying, begging me to stay but im not sure i can take anymore. Last one was a philipino hostess girl, who stalked me for months, which was scary, because we were in asia and i cant speak japanese. The new one invited him to come check out her church and then she fucks him in the parking lot after the service. Classy. God, what did i do to deserve this shit.

Posts: 294 | Registered: Jan 2011
♂ 39406
Member # 39406
Default  Posted: 1:40 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Split. Just start running and figure out the rest later.

Me: BH - Happily Remarried, but dealing with old stuff

I'm losing my mind in a bedroom with a ghost
and I'm losing my mind in a bottle while I choke
I stayed years with you, no one knows (but I want them to).
Thought Industry

Posts: 44 | Registered: May 2013
♀ 38660
Member # 38660
Default  Posted: 6:04 AM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I'm so sorry honey. The pain of DDay 1 is only outdone by DDay 2. So many of us here have been where you are and understand. Stay strong and keep posting.

"Never, never, never give up." - Winston Churchill

Posts: 138 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
♀ 40306
Member # 40306
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. (((Hugs)))

I think there is something in the air today...having a rough day here as well...

Don't make any hasty decisions.

Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman

Posts: 5600 | Registered: Aug 2013
♀ 35812
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First off, you didn't one damned thing to cause OR deserve this shit. It was all decisions that your WH made. Decisions, not choices.

Detach, detach, detach, and use the 180 to figure out what you want, need, and deserve. You certainly don't deserve to be strung along like this with continual lying. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 10034 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
♀ 39996
Member # 39996
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, August 31st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is what would happen if I was in your shoes......the guys ass would be punted as fast as I could open the door. On second thought I might not even open that door I would just punt him harder!

Sorry if that was too honest. But I read enough stuff about BS's dealing with more then one AP and I know I could never stand for that.


Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)

Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: CDN
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