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CallMeMara (original poster new member #40439) posted at 8:00 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
I just found out that WH is seeking "poontang" from someone else AGAIN! UGH. I want to beat the sh*t out of him but I think I'm just done instead.
I'm pretty. I'm smart. I'm a GOOD mom. Someone else will be getting a charm but not WH. He can have his whores! I'm DONE!!!
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 9:57 AM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
Thefly559 ( member #40268) posted at 12:10 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
I feel your anger and I am sorry ! But if you are pretty , smart, good mom and I am sure good( not perfect nobody is ) wife then be strong and decide that you deserve better. Just a thought. Good luck and all the best.
"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"
TxsT ( member #39996) posted at 12:16 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
I know you deserve better.....if it was me filling your shoes I would cut my losses now and save all that effort you will have to expend to get beyond the "yet again" crap for someone who really deserves the attention.
T
Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!
Pippy ( member #16482) posted at 4:47 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
Mara, it is time for you to institute the 180, to give you the strength for what you have to do. It is found in the Healing Library under BS FAQs #11. It will help you get stronger - it WORKS!
This guy is a serial cheater. Life is too short and you deserve better. You WILL survive this. Hugs.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
CallMeMara (original poster new member #40439) posted at 11:56 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
Thanks everyone for the encouragement. Last night was anger, today is grief. I found the 180. Thanks for recommending.
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