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kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 5:26 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
I was doing well with days 3-5 of the separation this week. But then a flare up with the WW yesterday and today I'm feeling down and missing her. I'm with the kids today and tomorrow, but having trouble engaging with them. I know she is going to see her AP at some point in the next two days and I don't want to care, but...
That is all. Just venting.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:49 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 5:52 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
Hang in there. The down days are tough, so just hold onto your sweet kids and remember how much they need a calm and rational for e in their lives now.
((Kg))
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
mof2 ( member #40287) posted at 6:08 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
(((((KG))))) 
BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 7:53 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
kg, this is where you force yourself to get busy and do something, anything active with your kids. Go to a park, go to a ball game, go to the movies, a bike ride, a cooking project, yard work - anything to get your mind in a better place. When you're busy, it's easier to stay on an even keel and keep the negative thoughts at bay. You CAN do this. Focus on the kids and get busy.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:09 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
((((kg)))) For every down day, there's an upward swing that follows. Until then, keep your kids in your actions and thoughts, and keep moving forward. Sending you strength and comfort.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 8:13 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013
Ok. Off to get subway sandwiches and drive to the top of a mountain with the kids. My WW's suggestion, but I need something.
Thank you for the replies everyone. SI is helping me through.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
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