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Observed the W of the OM that AP is screwing
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homewrecked2011 posted 9/1/2013 13:59 PM
Open house, 2013. At our school, you move class to class in 15 min blocks to meet other parents in your child's class.
So, only 4 parents were there for 5th and 6th combined periods. I think I mentioned that the ow has bragged to be sleeping with another married man. Way back when OW was my friend she hinted that she was meeting this guy on the side.
This man's son is in my son's 5th and 6th period class. So at open house Mom of this child was in the classroom, seated right by me. We chatted a little. I played it cool, didn't mention who I was or anything. This poor woman. If she finds out what her WH has been doing I feel for her. She is a quiet, sweet lady. Her spouse was not there, my XWH was not there as he was in Atlanta, and OW was not there - of coarse. OW was probably with this poor woman's husband! I have learned that he rents an apartment where he has sex with OW. 
I fully expected the Dad to be there because at the time I did not know my XWH was out of town. I wasn't going to say a word of who I am -- do you think he knows the last name of the dude living with his mistress? I really just wanted to observe this guy.
I'm really not sure she will believe anyone who tells her her H is a WS.
I hate family wrecking OW.
[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 2:02 PM, September 1st (Sunday)]
homewrecked2011 posted 9/1/2013 14:04 PM
Now, while you are thinking I am getting too involved in this stuff, I am actually pretty detached. I also just learned from my children that XWH got his OW a job at his company. 
Just observing. Relieved I don't have any drama at the moment.
nowiknow23 posted 9/1/2013 14:11 PM
Lordy. You are well served by being clear of all that drama.
Griefstricken25 posted 9/1/2013 14:19 PM
All I can think of is the poor kids in that class/school, all having their innocent lives upturned by the same few selfish individuals. 
homewrecked2011 posted 9/1/2013 20:56 PM
Exactly! I plan to steer clear of this. Awful that a 37 year old woman doesn't care about anyone's children/family/etc.
Vulcanized posted 9/2/2013 03:53 AM
Awful that a 37 year old woman doesn't care about anyone's children/family/etc.
Awful, yes. Surprising, sadly, no.