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Observed the W of the OM that AP is screwing

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 homewrecked2011 (original poster member #34678) posted at 7:59 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

Open house, 2013. At our school, you move class to class in 15 min blocks to meet other parents in your child's class.

So, only 4 parents were there for 5th and 6th combined periods. I think I mentioned that the ow has bragged to be sleeping with another married man. Way back when OW was my friend she hinted that she was meeting this guy on the side.

This man's son is in my son's 5th and 6th period class. So at open house Mom of this child was in the classroom, seated right by me. We chatted a little. I played it cool, didn't mention who I was or anything. This poor woman. If she finds out what her WH has been doing I feel for her. She is a quiet, sweet lady. Her spouse was not there, my XWH was not there as he was in Atlanta, and OW was not there - of coarse. OW was probably with this poor woman's husband! I have learned that he rents an apartment where he has sex with OW.

I fully expected the Dad to be there because at the time I did not know my XWH was out of town. I wasn't going to say a word of who I am -- do you think he knows the last name of the dude living with his mistress? I really just wanted to observe this guy.

I'm really not sure she will believe anyone who tells her her H is a WS.

I hate family wrecking OW.

[This message edited by homewrecked2011 at 2:02 PM, September 1st (Sunday)]

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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 homewrecked2011 (original poster member #34678) posted at 8:04 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

Now, while you are thinking I am getting too involved in this stuff, I am actually pretty detached. I also just learned from my children that XWH got his OW a job at his company.

Just observing. Relieved I don't have any drama at the moment.

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 8:11 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

Lordy. You are well served by being clear of all that drama.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Griefstricken25 ( member #29183) posted at 8:19 PM on Sunday, September 1st, 2013

All I can think of is the poor kids in that class/school, all having their innocent lives upturned by the same few selfish individuals.

Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011

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 homewrecked2011 (original poster member #34678) posted at 2:56 AM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

Exactly! I plan to steer clear of this. Awful that a 37 year old woman doesn't care about anyone's children/family/etc.

Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55

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Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 9:53 AM on Monday, September 2nd, 2013

Awful that a 37 year old woman doesn't care about anyone's children/family/etc.

Awful, yes. Surprising, sadly, no.

Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long

Now:-----> Everything is as it should be

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