Even though we are on the road to D, I tend to give a few details, because I don't have anything to hide but because I don't want to be accused of hiding anything.
Lately, I am accused of both things and it's aggravating, so it seems good to cover ourselves and give minor details.
Also, it may go across better for you to show that you aren't bitter or secretive to give small or minor details.
When I went on a trip with DD, for instance, I gave the info of who we were going to see and the days and that was all. I didn't give details of daily activities or anything.
ETA we have an issue with finances too, and though I get very annoyed when Nearly ExH shows up with new belongings, I don't say anything because his life is his own now. It would do no good to voice concern even if it's valid It's my opinion that your WW shouldn't have anything to say about your coming and going, either-it seems like she made that choice already and you should get to have your own life without her judgment.
when our bills are behind I worry but all it does is cause trouble to say anything nowadays. His spending habits have always been different than mine and it's very apparent now, but I have no right to any opinion on what he does now. I hope your WW will get to that point someday...and I hope you have a nice trip, no Glamour. Maybe a change of scenery will help?
[This message edited by Ashland13 at 8:05 PM, September 1st (Sunday)]
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