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Deanna
♀ 26854
Member # 26854
Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She gave him a peck on the cheek when she walked past him as if to say, "I want more than just flirting."
I have to tell you that I am not feeling anything today but greatful for the marriage we have today. That two months was a blip on the radar screen of our twenty four year marriage. Do I wish it didn't happen? Of course but I wouldn't go back to the way our marriage used to be for anything.
Not only can you survive but you can thrive!!!


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1474 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
rachelc
♀ 30314
Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you!!!
But, how do you get to thrive?!


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5530 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2670 | Registered: Aug 2012
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Posts: 8014 | Registered: Dec 2010
Deanna
♀ 26854
Member # 26854
Default  Posted: 2:34 PM, September 2nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How do you get to thrive?

When you and your spouse are reconcilled (and you will know when that is) you will be able to move forward and become a better couple than you ever had been. It takes a lot of hard work but you will get there if your spouse is doing all the work and you can accept what happened. Accepting what happened was the hardest part for me.


DDay - 11/4/09
BS-49 DDay
fWS-46 DDay
EA/PA with childhood sweetheart/ kissed
R - 11/25/09
Life is not a dress rehearsal

Posts: 1474 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Northeast
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