I know, I know everyone on here says don't do it. But, you see, I contacted her 3 times. the first was a text that just said, stop texting my H, then again a month later, then again I saw an email and I wrote back to her "please stop contacting my husband or i will have to contact your husband". well, she went ballistic according to H. But she wrote me an email back. H intercepted it and deleted t before i even saw it. I feel like I was cheated out of a chance to respond back. Whatever she said--I have no idea and I just want to give my chance to respond.
This is the email I found months later written by H
"Your response was kind to (ionly...) I saw nothing wrong with it. You spoke the truth. Jealousy kills. That is what this is because she KNOWS **OUR** history. IF it were any other woman, she would not likely care. So I can only apologize. You HAVE been a great friend to me the last 1-2 months. And I HOPE I have been to you. I'm still here. Just missing you more. I miss you (pet names for ow)"
it just irks me to no end that I didn't get my chance to respond back to whatever she said. i found this email 8 months ago and i still think of it everyday. OW probably thinks i am wimp and backed down. and got scared of her--no I am not scared of her, I just want to destroy her....oh that's right, I am just "jealous".as far as I know there hasn't been any contact on either part since 3 months but I am still obsessing about contacting her one last time.