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mof2
♀ 40287
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just had lunch with one of my/our friends. Well, her husband continues to be friends with him because he is a Christian and doesn't want to just drop him as he doesn't feel it is the right thing to do even though he says what he has done is nothing short of horrible and wrong. But, there is nothing like having a support system of friends who continue to love on you. We discussed my H's and OW's affair and how people can just walk out on their spouses for that short lived feeling of "euphoric love" (not that it is really love). We talked about how people who are emotionally retarded can't understand that it is lust and when that wears off and they are into a "normal" relationship of trust issues and fighting over all other issues that they will have...it is back to square one. I just couldn't think of the regrets these two are going to have in the long run. The OW's husband even said the other day "I wonder which one of them is going to regret it first and which one is going to regret it the most." The delusions that go through the minds of people who cheat are nothing less than scary to think about. I think about the pain that the BS goes through and that it might not compare to the pain they eventually go through when the realization of what they have done finally hits them and they realize what they have lost. Sad


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
TrustGone
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, September 3rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some regret it, some never do. My XWH#1 still blames me for the D. He will never get to the regret stage because he still can't believe I actually had the nerve to D his NPD ass.


BW-52
WH#2-53
M-10 yrs T-12 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
DD#4-11/28/14 He ran off to be with OW after assaulting me
Divorcing

Posts: 2504 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
blindsided03
♀ 40302
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL TrustGone. I like how you closed that paragraph!! Screw those NPD losers!


BW
M6m
Dday(2)8/13
D12/13...he's a sociopath.

Posts: 62 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
sleepless34
♀ 40274
Member # 40274
Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was talking to my best friend on the phone last night. BTW- what a great friend, she lives in a different time zone 3 hours later and talks to me every night for hours- very late for her and I lvoe her so much for it.

She said, "You know, the boogeyman is going to come for him. And it is going to be so much worse than anything you could ever do or say to him. He is going to wake up some day, and this big, huge snot is going to hit him in the face- it is called reality. And it is going to take him to his knees. He is never going to sleep well again. This boogeyman, the realization of what he did and what he lost and who he hurt, is not going to go easy on him. He is going to eat him alive."

So awesome. I feel like making an old school prank phone call and say to him in a scary voice..."the boogeyman is coming to get you...."


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 446 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
mof2
♀ 40287
Member # 40287
Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG Sleepless! So true! You made me smile, but it also made me sad to think of the pain he will eventually go through missing this family. But when reality hits, it will not be pretty.


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
sleepless34
♀ 40274
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What is NPD ass???


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 446 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
mof2
♀ 40287
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Narcissistic Personality Disorder. That is what most suffer from.


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
sleepless34
♀ 40274
Member # 40274
Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh yes, I can see that...

they all have it apparently


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

Posts: 446 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Hell
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